As a quadriplegic I was lucky to have found two women, in 37 years, who were open minded enough to have had relationships with. Unfortunately, they only lasted a little over a year. After eight years of unwanted celibacy, a friend turned my on to ASPD. I joined and after six months I finally pulled the trigger. I missed the touch, feel and scent of a woman. I not only pulled the trigger, but went all out with a double. It was great and I was hooked, no pun intended.
The companionship, albeit brief, was something I could not find in civilian life, being treated like a man, not as simply a guy in a wheelchair. Thankfully, I had an annuity that allowed me the opportunity to see at least five or six a year, and attend some of the many socials, where I met a majority of those I eventually enjoyed the pleasure of their company. For some, 5 or six might be a good month, lol. More power to you. It sucked when the annuity ran out, but by then I'd seen and met so many women who didn't judge me and saw past the disability, and I know I wasn't the only one.
I'm thankful to have met so many women and, while I'm only able to see a couple a year, thank you ladies, on behalf of myself and others in similar situations to mine. Without you, the intimate moments one can only have with a woman, however brief, would not be possible.
