Looking for advice on being safe

I’m a newbie and a few weeks ago I set up an appointment with a verified provider. Everything seemed cool, but when I got to the incall parking lot I decided to circle around and noticed a police suv around the corner, I kept making my way around the building and that’s when I saw two cops loading people up at the hotel next door, no less than 100 yards from where I was going to be. Looking for advice on a safe way to hobby.

Alright, i am new to this too but here is what i decided on in my head. There is not really a 100% safe situation. I am not sure on the laws, but i look for a girl that has what i am wanting on her menu already. I reach out and setup a time not talking about what i want specifically, i get there and go in. I hug her and say hello with lots of hands, i ask her to get comfortable and usually once her pants are off or my hands have found her ass, i hit the bathroom to do a quick check, place the donation out and go for it. Never gonna be 100% safe, but trust your gut i guess.

Couple of practices I personally do...

1. If meeting a eccie provider for the 1st time, I normally carry only the required donation inside my sock right by my ankle. If I want extras, I carry extra donation in the other sock.

2. If meeting a back page provider, I do not take the donation with me especially if I park close to the incall. Come in meet, "use the restroom" as a way to scope out the place.

3. Use this website as your friend. Likely there is some info on her to allow you to research and determine in advance if this person is a good fit.

4. Write reviews. Often you may get pm's from other mongers which may drop you recommendations.