Kind of a newbie dumb question

So the ladies require so many requirements in order to see me. Does this website have a service that i can as a user of this website bypass these requirements. Since i dont see the girls on a regular some of the past girls wont use my references since it was so long ago. To the point i can say hey im interested in your time but they see im an xyz member so it bypasses their requirements. I dont want to come off negatively i was just hoping their was something out their so i dont have to go through so many hoops with the ladies. Thanks for your help in advance! Stay safe happy hobbing!
Preffered411.com

This is a verification site many people use. Once you're all set up you can get "OKs" from girls you've met. Sort of like an online refrence system.

I'm newbie friendly and reference friendly if you need any help just pm me or call me at 8164993371
DallasRain's Avatar
Well baby I will give you a grrat reference anytime...my name should be helful in references
(And I will be in KC first of january)
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
No such thing as a dumb question when dealing with hobby safety stuff.

The whole issue is safety, for both the gals and guys. Frankly, the gals are more at risk. Thus, for guys, yes you will always have to satisfy the screening requirements of a gal. Regardless of being a newbie or having a couple decades in the game.

But, as long as you're seeing a respected known trusted provider, the screening will be rather painless. I note that this hobby is built on trust.

If you're asking for a date from a well known eccie gal, Dallas is correct that her reference may be sufficient. Frankly, I consider her methods of screening to be a gold standard, and it's my understanding that a lot of the gals have the same opinion.

Once you've gotten several reviews up, the gals will see which other gals you've had dates with, and your newbie status will be gone. But, you will always be asked for references, especially if you hobby infrequently, so you do need keep a couple handy.
KayC_K's Avatar
It may also help if you had a conversation with your providers afterwards and just ask them if they have a problem giving a good reference for you in the future, and using them for that reference within a 30-60 day window. You'll find it difficult to see anyone if the last one cant remember you. If you do reviews the screening process lightens up. Remember that screening is for your safety as much as it is for us. Good luck in your quest.
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Well baby I will give you a grrat reference anytime...my name should be helful in references
(And I will be in KC first of january) Originally Posted by DallasRain
Send that fella' the thing for a free trial on P411, Dallas.
Thanks everyone for the feed back! Everything about Dallas is gold standard! Not saying all the other girls are not. So if im interested on seeing a girl should I just put it out their in the ISO forum and have the girls come to me?
Savannah Moon's Avatar
I saw him too, he is a great guy!!
Yes Dallas, send him P411 info..
I REALLY LIKE P411
Less hassles!!
Savannah Moon's Avatar
Thanks everyone for the feed back! Everything about Dallas is gold standard! Not saying all the other girls are not. So if im interested on seeing a girl should I just put it out their in the ISO forum and have the girls come to me? Originally Posted by 816ib6ub9
Yes that is a good way to do it as well!!
I answer those on occasion.
Or look in short notice for providers..
At the top of ISO
DallasRain's Avatar
Done..
I am nowhere near as experienced as many in the hobby, but what I have realized in the past two years here in KC, i like variety, so every once in a while i make sure that any of the girls i have had a "date" with are still active. if not, i hurry up and ensure my next encounter is with a well known, to always make sure I have two working references. Sounds like a hassle, but for someone like me (and from the sounds of it you) it makes the once every few months encounter go a whole lot easier.
Just last week I was able to see my first traveling girl, because i actually had two references still working!!...lol
I guess you can go to Back page and roll the dice! Or play safe right here.
My screening process is easy and fast. If D says you are great...then your good as Gold babe!