I've been trolling on here for sometime. I haven't had the sack to pull the trigger often. I've met with a wonderful provider in Atlanta but, well, it took a couple beers to get up the courage
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I'm just wondering how to do this safely and not get busted. So far I think I've learned only to look for those with reviews in order to be safe.
How do I form a "relationship" with a provider or two with which I can visit when I'm in town? More specifically, how can I get references when it takes references to get references?
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Any advice for a new hobbiest would be greatly appreciated.