References

When you have an appointment with a provider from eccie do you just assume that they are a reference for future appointments with other ladies, or do you have to ask if they would be one for you?

Also ladies, what information gets passed along in these references, if I may ask? Is it just that the guy is legit (not LE) and safe (not a psycho). Or is performance and attitude and other information passed along also? Just curious.

Dont assume, always ask a lady if you can use her as a reference. Im game but some ladies are not. Also ask how to check as I prefer email, that is the quickest way Ill respond. I dont really ever carry my hobby phone outside my apartment. I man it when Im expecting a call.


I give a bit of info.. a general on what you look like, so they know your the same guy. also what you may like as in outfits, likes it slow, etc. Or if you have anaconda wee wee. I like to know if a gent is large specially on a tour.. I wouldn't want to see someone "large" and mess me up for the day. lol Would prefer to see him last.. Im a small lady. I dont talk about performance issues really.. many men have this problem. Many. That kind of thing could be day to day so you me be on during her session.

Some ladys just give a "Yea I saw him".. Some ignore you or get back 4 days later.. I give enough info so you know its the same guy and things he may like so you can have a good session with him.

I find having a "WELL BALANCED" online personality is helpful!!!A polite and unobtrusive persona will have them swoooning!!!

how about awestruck gratefulness?

Thanks for the insider infor lynn, I love how much you step up to help the guys here.

I find having a "WELL BALANCED" online personality is helpful!!!A polite and unobtrusive persona will have them swoooning!!! Originally Posted by JONBALLS

how about awestruck gratefulness? Originally Posted by malonely

Just as long as it is not out and out on line brown nose ass kissing. Save that for BCD's, and then review with that ass kissing in the review.

She is 100% right, always ask the Lady if you can use her as a reference. If she agrees ask how she would like to be contacted by other providers ,NEVER just give out a Lady's cell phone or personal information to anyone!!! Another tip is that if she does says yes and to have another Lady contact her by phone you might want to tell her who will be calling. If I get a call from some random Lady there is no way in hell I'm giving her information about anyone, I will play stupid. What if it is a wife/gf, private detective, stalker...? I keep my number VERY private, I am very selective about who I will see therefore I am selective about who I give my number to. If my number were to get posted in a review or just given out to some random provider I would be LIVID.
*Hugs* Safe hobbying.

315-one2FIVE-fUnn, sorry just had too. I'm just a AZZ. see

both girls, good reply's

She is 100% right, always ask the Lady if you can use her as a reference. If she agrees ask how she would like to be contacted by other providers ,NEVER just give out a Lady's cell phone or personal information to anyone!!! Another tip is that if she does says yes and to have another Lady contact her by phone you might want to tell her who will be calling. If I get a call from some random Lady there is no way in hell I'm giving her information about anyone, I will play stupid. What if it is a wife/gf, private detective, stalker...? I keep my number VERY private, I am very selective about who I will see therefore I am selective about who I give my number to. If my number were to get posted in a review or just given out to some random provider I would be LIVID.
*Hugs* Safe hobbying. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I really appreciate your point of view. especially the " ,NEVER just give out a Lady's cell phone or personal information to anyone!!! "

This is a 2 way street , so ,NEVER just give out a Gentleman's cell phone or personal information to anyone!!!
my 2 cents, he he

Agreed on the phone number, mine is not posted anywhere ever and you have to be screened to get it. I barely have pictures around and you have to ask for my website..

Ive had gents try to get ladies numbers from me.. Nope, her number is not public..

and that number is errrr rats I see I got lexxxy wrong its a 716

and this one is tit-sml-nhot with your cell phone. does not work with my only dial phones in the house. errrrr rats now she changes the line under her handle. I have been late and a dollar short all day on this board after that review I did. NOTE TO SELF do not stay up till 5 am writing, and plan on keeping up on the board.

Lexxxy's is actually TX haha.

Lexxxy's is actually TX haha. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

errrr I can't win for loosing didn't even get the area code out of her. But we narrowed it down a bit

*Giggle*

I didn't read through the whole thread so forgive me if I repeat some things the other ladies have said.

Believe it or not, a lot of ladies WILL NOT provide references. I have found that even those that have been asked first, and the lady agreed to it, will never return an email, phone call, etc.

As for information that is given, every lady is different. I have recieved some references back where I get a lot of details (this makes me confident that the lady did indeed see the gent) and then I get some that say "Yes hes fine". Those ones are questionable to me. When I respond to a reference, I always try and add a little something to assure the lady that I do remember him and I really did see him.

Hope that makes sense,

Lux