Too rough?

Just wanna know where everyone stands on spankings and hair pulling?
Personally a little is hot but it’s very easy to cross the line.
I like when guys do it but often they get excited and pull or spank too hard and I have to ask them to lighten up
Is it safer to just keep it off the menu?
Ladies do you like/allow it?
Men is light play acceptable? Or is it no fun if it’s not painful?

Some guys naturally prefer lighter play, like myself, while others may be masochist by nature. I'll start off a little light and let the girl say to do them harder whether it's spanking or pulling hair or both (have done plenty of each). You might suggest you like it before things heat up in bed, kind of like "Would you like to spank my ass and pull my hair? Not too hard ok?". As opposed to during while the guys adrenaline and primal instincts have already warped his mind. Maybe try that route as suggesting beforehand might be a turn on in itself.

Everyone's different.. what soft for you can be hard for others..
I've met chicks that like to be choked to the point of turning deep red
or to be spanked SUPER hard! (even hurt my hands).. others can't even consider to have someone's hand on their neck..

I guess you should make me an appointment and we'll find out!

Light spanking (and nurturing) and light hair pulling is fine, even hot, but I don't see how dishing out pain could be fun for anyone.

Everybody has limits, just be sure everybody knows and is comfortable with them so you don't end up like Cody lane in the blue room lol.

"Safe Word"

Yes, a little of each is hot. Quite hot!

Yes, boundaries must be clearly understood by all.

^^^^^ What Mokoa said is perfect!!

Sorry, I meant to say sadist in my comment. Not masochist. However, there are providers and hobbyists who may be masochist and enjoy pain upon them. But I meant to say one who enjoys delivering pain.

Marie...please check your PM's

Some women like it some do not. Had a pseudo GF who loved to be choke/hair pulled/slapped and called a slut/bitch etc and liked it super rough. That is just how she rolled in her sex life.

I tell guys I don’t like pain inflicted. Although people are naturally more aggressive once they are excited. I’ll accept a light smack/pat and if pulling hair is a must then there is a certain way to pull the hair from the back of the nape so that it is not painful and you may not lose any hair lol I do think that once you get more reviews, guys will be know more or less what you like. Until then I would just add it to your showcase and website.

I'm not rough unless I'm in the mood. But it's a light rough. Only provider i know that asks for it is SA Holly. Got a little rough with her and she asked for more. She's kinda into the forced sex thing. Never hit her but she liked being held down and forced. I'm not particularly into that but with her, I enjoy it. Probably because she asks for it and likes it.

All females like to get there inner slut fucked. There this one time i was feeling like Nacho Vidal i grabbed the pillows and ejected them while i took the pillowcase and put it over her head while doggy while slapping her spinner ass.

Communication is the key. Discuss this subject on your Showcase and make your preferences and limits clear. And always have a safe word if you are playing a bit rough. In fact, the red (Stop), yellow (Caution, you're at my limit) and green (well isn't this fun) system works well.