having the need to jump on the handytrain
or the amtrack train
which creates the most carnage?
Handytrain? Originally Posted by buffalomw10staff edit-pk It's an old and sad story.
staff edit-pk It's an old and sad story.
Although one of them knows better from personal experience, and the other is just making the assumption, they are implying that I'm doing something along those lines. I'm not.
If you look at just about every time I post, you will see these two posting some kind of dig. Both are sad in their own way.
PM is a character created by a hobbyist that at one time had a measure of respect here. Don't know if the author still hobbies, but wouldn't be surprised. In any event, the PM character basically shits on the hobby and those who partake. He denigrates the women who provide and mocks and belittles the men who hobby. If you look at the sheer number of posts this character has made, you will get some sense of the amount of time he spends trolling. It's a staggering number.
JB is at least a person who speaks for himself. At one point we got along and I thought he was a good guy. I never got a clear handle on how exactly he came to hold me in such low regard. I have theories. There was one provider that he met who was a dancer/provider I introduced to Eccie (more on that in a bit) who he really fell for (he'll deny it and probably get pissy...he doesn't always handle anger that well, or he just can't be honest with himself).
I think he got it in his head that I had some kind of influence on her or was in his way. Maybe he was trying to see her exclusively...I really don't know exactly, but this girl was definitely a sore point. There was another girl who he was seeing for about a year before I met him, and again he apparently had strong feelings for her too - this was a bit later than the first girl. staff edit-pk despite his prior experience with her, her issues are lain at my feet, or somehow of my doing.
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Here's where the confusion comes in with me.
Unlike the PM character, I think the hobby is a valid and worthy pursuit. I believe people should have agency with respect to what they do with their bodies. As long as consent is involved, it's all good. It's not shameful at all. I've seen it help women maintain economic independence and success. edit-pk
Over the years, I've encountered women (a lot of dancers) who were dabbling or full on providing and encouraged them to join eccie or at least the community. edit. Some weren't. Along the way, some (including these two) have concluded that I am some kind of handler or more and have a stable (way to equate women with animals, smh!), edit
While it's true I am not a fuck and leave type of hobbyist, and I tend to get more personally involved with providers on a friend level, it's a delusion to think I had any more control over these women than any other hobbyist. Influence based on frienship...that can be true some of the time, but that's about it.
I'm not sure the truth matters to these two and a few others, but every once in a while it's worth getting out there. Originally Posted by MajorHands
plastic man ...loves subhuman funnels ins the ...sames way a person mights loves staff editl
...buts unlike ol handy yer ...plastic man ...doesnts gets em edit pk an thens moves onta the next ...victim while the other corpse still ...be warmOriginally Posted by Plastic Man
staff edit-pk It's an old and sad story.
Although one of them knows better from personal experience, and the other is just making the assumption, they are implying that I'm doing something along those lines. I'm not.
If you look at just about every time I post, you will see these two posting some kind of dig. Both are sad in their own way.
PM is a character created by a hobbyist that at one time had a measure of respect here. Don't know if the author still hobbies, but wouldn't be surprised. In any event, the PM character basically shits on the hobby and those who partake. He denigrates the women who provide and mocks and belittles the men who hobby. If you look at the sheer number of posts this character has made, you will get some sense of the amount of time he spends trolling. It's a staggering number.
JB is at least a person who speaks for himself. At one point we got along and I thought he was a good guy. I never got a clear handle on how exactly he came to hold me in such low regard. I have theories. There was one provider that he met who was a dancer/provider I introduced to Eccie (more on that in a bit) who he really fell for (he'll deny it and probably get pissy...he doesn't always handle anger that well, or he just can't be honest with himself).
I think he got it in his head that I had some kind of influence on her or was in his way. Maybe he was trying to see her exclusively...I really don't know exactly, but this girl was definitely a sore point. There was another girl who he was seeing for about a year before I met him, and again he apparently had strong feelings for her too - this was a bit later than the first girl. staff edit-pk despite his prior experience with her, her issues are lain at my feet, or somehow of my doing.
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Here's where the confusion comes in with me.
Unlike the PM character, I think the hobby is a valid and worthy pursuit. I believe people should have agency with respect to what they do with their bodies. As long as consent is involved, it's all good. It's not shameful at all. I've seen it help women maintain economic independence and success. edit-pk
Over the years, I've encountered women (a lot of dancers) who were dabbling or full on providing and encouraged them to join eccie or at least the community. edit. Some weren't. Along the way, some (including these two) have concluded that I am some kind of handler or more and have a stable (way to equate women with animals, smh!), edit
While it's true I am not a fuck and leave type of hobbyist, and I tend to get more personally involved with providers on a friend level, it's a delusion to think I had any more control over these women than any other hobbyist. Influence based on frienship...that can be true some of the time, but that's about it.
I'm not sure the truth matters to these two and a few others, but every once in a while it's worth getting out there. Originally Posted by MajorHands
this clearly isn't really about the truth then, is it? Originally Posted by MajorHands
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