Just because she is a Provider...

Doesn't give you the right to treat her as anything less than a human being.

This is directed to the ECCIE hobbyist that I just missed seeing on Memorial Day.

Dude, I know you saw my text yesterday, the one where I asked for the address, you had her phone. It might be about that time that you realized that what you were doing was wrong (I doubt this) and that you were thisclose to getting your “ass whipped” or maybe something worse.

Let me tell you dude, what you did to her there is no excuse, no justification and I hope that you realize that by your actions, you can’t even consider yourself a man. You are a punk ass bitch and I hope that you don’t learn your lesson and continue down the path that you are on. Terrorizing a woman is not something a man does. You terrorized her yesterday and today I am more angry about this. If I had caught you in the act, it would have been workman like in what I would have exacted from you.

Just because she is a provider does not give you the right to destroy her personal property, to make her fear for her life. When I think about how I found her in the closet, crying, scared beyond belief and trembling, I get enraged all over again. I have never had an appointment with her, never seen her BCD and am not her white knight, but she is a human being and no human deserves to be put in the state that you put her in.

Who am I you are asking yourself? I've had my manhood tested in combat, I've seen what weak fucks like you do to those that can not defend themselves. Take heed in these words, this is no threat, I am making no threat to physically harm you, I will make you a promise in that the next time I get a text or phone call asking me to please help. I will act without emotion and I promise you that I will find you. I didn't ask for your personal information, but I know she will give it to me if I ask for it. Don't bother sending me a PM to try and explain yourself, if you do have testicles enough to confront me, just tell me when and where we can meet, I'd really like an opportunity to return the favor to you.

Wow! I second that and if you need backup let me know.. sheesh!

That sounds horrifying! I hope the young lady you are referring to is going to be ok. Has ECCIE been notified about this guy? Also, I certainly hope she puts him on the National Blacklist.

She is okay and back to work. I expect to get an earfull for posting this, but I want the fucker to know that I know what he did and I am looking for him to come back and try it again.

Even though your words are strong and your intentions are good, you are not helping the situation anymore than the victims silence. You or she needs to post a proper alert with the handle of the guy. Also a description of what he looks like & maybe even what he drives. Other providers NEED to know these things, for their own safety. And if she has already posted it in the powder room, thats not good enough. I know several great providers that do not have access to it & I would hate to see this guys actions repeated when you or her could help prevent it from happening again.

Just my 2 cents...

i have nooo clue what happened
i hope the lady is ok!!
to the Op, could you pm me "who", the handle of said person?

agree with justice though. if no one mentions "who" this thread is pretty pointless other than proving whos more macho. ...with their vocab

This guy is from Houston, and the same forum is posted there. I wonder if this was accidentally posted here, or if he is posting in every major Tex. city to get the perp's attention? Either way, and if this is true, I hope the girl was not harmed whoever she may be.

Nothing worse than a man who abuses a woman! And I don't see it as "macho vocab" just a plain honest statement of intention. The ladies in particular need to know the details concerning this sub-human specimen. Oldbreed can't protect everyone. Out the abuser so that others may protect themselves.

Outing aside -- maggots like this one prey on these ladies, assuming they would never go to the police. My fantasy would be that, someday, he gets the shock of his life -- i.e., that his victim reports him, and the police act upon her report.

Someboby need to go to jail and then he shall learn firsthand what it is like to be terrorized from the perspective of a provider. Because punks like him are the providers in those situations.

Even though your words are strong and your intentions are good, you are not helping the situation anymore than the victims silence. You or she needs to post a proper alert with the handle of the guy. Also a description of what he looks like & maybe even what he drives. Other providers NEED to know these things, for their own safety. And if she has already posted it in the powder room, thats not good enough. I know several great providers that do not have access to it & I would hate to see this guys actions repeated when you or her could help prevent it from happening again.

Just my 2 cents... Originally Posted by JusticeMutt

I agree with JM on this. This info does not help other providers avoid this situation. The provider that was the victim of this incident should speak up and alert the other providers on ECCIE. It's tough to do but it has to be done to prevent this from happening again.

I really hope the provider is ok. But me as well as some other providers that travel to SA and read this thread would hope that the provider or you comes forward with some more info about this guy. I myself am planning on making a trip down there towards the end of the month. And Im sorry but as a provider that is part of your responsibilty on this board. Just the same way that if you were hobbying in a particular city and someone else got hurt or had an issue. You would like to know the dangers going on as well. I know that she might be scared so if it is something she would like to keep private I have no problem with pming you or her. But this kinda stuff doesnt make me wanna hobby in a place where I cant fully get the details of an alert. And Im sure others might feel this way as well. Stay safe!!!

maria goddess said in part...
".....that is part of your responsibilty on this board....."

I so totally agree with what maria goddess has noted along with many others in this thread.

What started out as a front page "above the fold" deteriorated into a back page (or weekly insert) tidbit that you might as well use to wrap today's mackerel in to carry it home from the fish market. You did manage to catch our interest; peak our curiosities; and as the pot was stirred - it became apparent that it was empty. Truth be known - geographically speaking we don't even have a clue.

It would be a complete and total shame if this causes Maria Goddess not to visit San Antonio because of what has happened in another part of the state. I may have to be depressed for a bit. Unless one of our noble providers here wants to take pity on me. <nudge, nudge, wink, wink, say no more> LOL

Everyone, this was an open message to an asshole. It wasn't an alert, I have been part of this community long enough to know what warrants an alert. The asshole in question lives in your town, the provider in Houston and the attack took place in Houston.

He wasn't a new client, they had been seeing each other for at least a year. For reasons known only to him, he snapped. I started this thread in anger, I didn't mean to upset any of the ladies or cause them to not tour SA.

I appreciate the comments.

Mods, could you please lock this thread.