so I'm posting this here... and I don't give a damn if I get banned for it .. POINTED FOR IT... ( i'd welcome it ) ... or slammed...
Any lady in this business has had days of weird I know. Some days just spook you.. and some clients thing you are are ESP endowed and know who they are. Maybe that's because they use this board as a metronome to keep their dick in rythm with... or maybe because they have no common sence... but if a client can't post a ' bad review ' or call back another day just to make sure there's a reason and a rhyme they can't catch the beat of on an off day... then how can you justify allowing them to down play or negate or do a bad PR play on them in a forum not for reviews...
This was the guys post..... note the red paragraph.. and tell me ONE THING.. why would I say the " on my street " bull shit if he was IN MY PARKING LOT.. BECASUE I HAD GIVEN HIM MY LOCATION after he was already here ? could it be someone was confused? maybe a misunderstanding ? or could it be just another young flavor of the month want to be's white knight bobby trying t
o make me look worse that I make myowns self look?
ASPD USED TO BE REVIEW ( EVEN IF NO SHOW ) OR NOTHING.
NOT A FREE FOR ALL OVER A NEVER EVEN MET THE JOHN POST.
The why did you allow THIS...
WTF?
Jayne in FW -- What a total waste of time!
So, I called Jayne in FW and asked if she could see me. We had traded emails for the last few days and an appointment hadn't happened because she said her phone was out and she could only schedule by email or PM. But today her phone worked.
I told her I was north of her a few miles but on one of the roads she advertises in her ads. She gave me her address and said she could see me in about 20 minutes. Now, this was getting near rush hour traffic and it took me the full 20 minutes plus to get there. I pulled in the parking lot and phoned her as she asked. When she picked up the phone, she said, "Nobody ever told me they were on that street when they called. Makes me kinda nervous. I don't want to get in trouble. I'm going to pass." And hung up!
From my perspective, that's wrong in oh-so-many ways. Let me go through a few.
1. She didn't screen. Wouldn't that simple step have eased her mind?
I've been on this board for many years, have many reviews, have P411 multi-approval status, etc., etc. Apparently it's okay to take appointments with anybody off the street, but also to cancel on anybody at any time.
2. Why should telling her the street I'm on when I call make a shred of difference? Anybody can tell you anything. I was in the middle of a nice west Fort Worth shopping area. What's wrong with that? Apparently something.
3. Couldn't she have asked any number of questions without just hanging up? For example: Do you have P411? Are you on ECCIE? What is your handle? Do you publish reviews? Apparently not. Hanging up was much easier.
4. When she knew I was the guy she had been trading emails with, shouldn't that have made a difference? Apparently not.
5. If she was gonna be nervous and cancel, couldn't she have done it before I drove 10 miles and 30 minutes through rush hour traffic to get to her location? Apparently not. Much easier for her to just have a total brain fart and quit thinking.
The point is simple. I absolutely respect the right of any provider to see whoever she wants to see and to avoid anybody she wants to avoid. But providers are pretty famous for decrying the NC/NS crowd. I appreciate that. But, as this shows, the knife cuts both says.
Jayne, your loss!
clearly... when I go blow my weapons... ( shyster ).... and need targets to shoot at... this one will be added to the list I have stored down at TINDEL back up your shit clinic... if he will even fit.
WHEN.. NOT IF.
Actually.... ( WHAT NERVE ) ...
THE THE WTF AND WHO T F DO YOU THINK YOU ARE IS WHAT i'M MORE CONCERNED ABOUT . Clearly this Hobbiest has NEVER been slammed in a chair with handcuffs, flipped out of the chair while still cuffed backwards onto the floor or a bathroom in a motel next door to where they were attempting to STING other ladies... all because she told the wigged idiot working the sting he would just have to trust her when he asked what the money was for. Obviously he's never been kicked with steel toed boots while on the floor becasue he didn't happen to know who was calling him on his ringing cell phone ( on the floor between toilet and wall cuffed and bleeding... you don't really give a damn who's on the phone ) .... And obviously... this ( as the tone in his voice indicated originally ) ... is someone out to give me a difficult time... as are many or his type.
Maybe all should be aware of this board poster... ; as in check him out doubly prior to seeing him. That's what I recomend.. and 8 years pretty much makes me an expert in the attitude location voice area of hard dicks or nut hunters scheduling.
So.. allow me to defend myself since you allowed this to post in an unusual place. I believed it deserved its own thread... like the button on my mf tweed jacket does.. but you may see it differently. I don't gaf.
This guy never told me he had refs or he was on ECCIE or P411 or ANYTHING. The day he called ... wanting to be here " right now "... as in he said are you available RIGHT NOW ?
Right now... means to me that you are outside my door... or I know you ; you know where I am and you are close by ...by chance.
I had just overcome a client who FREAKED ME OUT in a scary way... and another ' provider' escort companion ...WHATEVER you call US.. had just spun my head around with a reference call that would require me to divulge sensitive information if I were to explain in detail.
Hence... when folks ALWAYS CALL .. and are CLOCK CONCIOUS... as in you ask them.. "what time is it now? " and they say 5:37. and they want to see you RIGHT NOW... AND THEY ARE ON YOUR STREET....
THEN DEPENDING ON THE AMOUNT OF RUMPLEMINTZ I HAVE OR HAVEN'T CONSUMED... I may or may not accept the appointment.
This guy DID NOT TELL ME HE WAS THE ONE EMAILING ME... AND IF HE KNEW HOW MANY BOGUS AND RETARDED EMAILS I GET... HE WOULD NEVER HAVE EVEN PUSHED SEND. Its the reason I say ABSOLUTLEY NO TEXT MESSAGES OR EMAILS WILL BE ACKNOWLEDGED... in the majority of my BP ADS.
face to face is best... phone to phone... and a little notice is better.
so how can you allow this type of bantar to go forward when I can't get on here and post the numbers and names of the 50 clients a month who no show me... ask crude and rude questions... or stink like they have been fucking yeast?
what is all about?
GD
8 YEARS... ONE FULLY CLOTHED W/SHOES ON AND NO VERBAL PROMISES BUST .... PROBABLY MORE SUCCESSFUL HAPPY CLIENTS THAN ANYONE AROUND HERE ( NOT BRAGGING ) ... AND AWARNESS, PERCEPTIVENESS AND HONESTY SHOULD ALLOW AND WARRANT ME TO POST WHATEVER I MF WANT TO....
I'm starting to wonder why I even would.