I read so much drama on this site about johns and providers having bad experiences. Then I go to the alert section and read about stings and dangerous activities. Worst of all I read about the occasional provider loosing her shit and threatening to out people. No wonder LE gets involved.
Here's my almost bullet proof method of having fun year after year.
1. I only see very reputable providers and I will see her 3-4 times and then I ask who she recommends. Before i know it I'm passed around like a little slut among these women and I love it.
2. If I step outside my "circle of trust" I will always confirm that the new provider checked my references. If she did not check my references I'm not showing up.
Hell these girls should get commissions for their referrals and I always go back and see them. There's usually a new provider I get introduced to.
This makes the hobby stress free and I enjoy being passed around.