Jumping back in and have a few questions.

So I'm planning on being in San Antonio near the Riverwalk next month and planned on jumping back into the hobby, took a break of about a year. Life and what not...

Found out on Friday my secretary booked a hotel that has card access to elevators etc...

I'm used to having a provider visit me, however I have visited some incalls in the past...

So my questions are...

Is there a way to work around this?
Should I chalk it up and visit an incall?
Should I book another hotel on the side?

Obviously I preferred to be visited, just more convenient... but I've given up convenience in that past for some entertainment

Thanks for your time!

Meet the lady in the lobby/bar and escort her up.

Meet the lady in the lobby/bar and escort her up. Originally Posted by FootLong

Thanks...

I had a similar thought when I first found out... searched the forum and found only "don't get a hotel with elevator card access" lol.

Do you think most providers are ok with that?

obviously, u won’t know until u ask. if i were in ur position, no matter the hotel access situation, i would rather meet the provider somewhere else, other than in my room, for the “just in case” i have a change of mind...

Thanks...

I had a similar thought when I first found out... searched the forum and found only "don't get a hotel with elevator card access" lol.

Do you think most providers are ok with that? Originally Posted by Typh

....searched the forum and found only "don't get a hotel with elevator card access" lol. Do you think most providers are ok with that? Originally Posted by Typh

I recall some of those comments, but mostly in the context of the lady having the card-controlled incall and not being willing to go downstairs to meet the client. I would think that most established ladies that you might contact would be OK with meeting you in the lobby/bar first.

obviously, u won’t know until u ask. if i were in ur position, no matter the hotel access situation, i would rather meet the provider somewhere else, other than in my room, for the “just in case” i have a change of mind... Originally Posted by HedonisticFool

Definitely makes sense, usually I do my research between here and p411 and haven't had any bad luck when meeting up. If you don't mind me asking...

How often have you had the "just in case" change of mind so to speak?

Curious, because I may add this to my TOB, even though I haven't had that bad of an experience. My worst (still not bad) experiences have come from incalls where I'm walking in blind.

best i can suggest is do ur provider shopping, research them, make ur list and post on this thread. ur fellow mongers will offer feedback to help in ur decision making. if ur uncomfortable with the open forum discussion, get urself premium access and continue this thread in the mens lounge...

happy hunting!

Definitely makes sense, usually I do my research between here and p411 and haven't had any bad luck when meeting up. If you don't mind me asking...

How often have you had the "just in case" change of mind so to speak?

Curious, because I may add this to my TOB, even though I haven't had that bad of an experience. My worst (still not bad) experiences have come from incalls where I'm walking in blind. Originally Posted by Typh

Nothing you've said is the sort of problem a "convenience fee" can not fix. Just be precise on the details in advance.

Best, also, if you get your hobbying "credentials" in place before you start making arrangements.

Best, also, if you get your hobbying "credentials" in place before you start making arrangements. Originally Posted by ck1942

True, thanks for the advice. Most of my credentials were through p411 since it's been a bit definitely sound advice. Just obtained premium access... hope to contribute to the board more as I'm back and forth between Austin and SA, mainly Austin though.

Hi Typh!! I thought I would chime in..

From my perspective.and like the above written..
Meeting in the lobby is perfectly fine! !!

Now it could be a tiny bit nerve racking.. for a second..
But ..not if both has done their homework.( TCB)..whether it be 'ok's' or my preference..talk to a lady who has met you..
These sites should be to gentlemen: " positive ..accurate information "

Ladies should gather information.. and research looking for "positive accurate information"..
Then waiting in a beautiful lobby ..for a nice gentleman to meet me!!

Flawlessly stress free .and I tend to be an over thinker..lol..Im loving advising you.
Don't over over think honey..

Thanks...

I had a similar thought when I first found out... searched the forum and found only "don't get a hotel with elevator card access" lol.

Do you think most providers are ok with that? Originally Posted by Typh

Exactly, this has worked for me. Better to meet them on the patio or at the bar. If she doesn’t match the pics then a small tip and off you go!

...my preference..talk to a lady who has met you.. Originally Posted by sin.di.vine

Damn it's good to see ladies who screen the correct way. This post made my day.

Hi Typh!! I thought I would chime in..

From my perspective.and like the above written..
Meeting in the lobby is perfectly fine! !!

Now it could be a tiny bit nerve racking.. for a second..
But ..not if both has done their homework.( TCB)..whether it be 'ok's' or my preference..talk to a lady who has met you..
These sites should be to gentlemen: " positive ..accurate information "

Ladies should gather information.. and research looking for "positive accurate information"..
Then waiting in a beautiful lobby ..for a nice gentleman to meet me!!

Flawlessly stress free .and I tend to be an over thinker..lol..Im loving advising you.
Don't over over think honey.. Originally Posted by sin.di.vine

Thanks for chiming in, great to have that perspective.
I plan on doing as before... research, contact, discuss, have fun...

Maybe a drink at the bar first before going up? That way it looks more like a pick up?