What am I doing wrong

HarleyMan1951's Avatar
First off I am a newbie, this week I have set up appt with 2 ladies both times they have sent me directions to go somewhere close to them. They say I will email or text my incall place, I go and wait for up to 2 hours and never get the final directions. I try to make plans days in advance. What the heck am I doing wrong.
Don't know. Perhaps there is something you are doing/saying that is putting them off. Try the newby friendly ladies and build up a repore and references.
Sorry to hear that. Dont let that discourage you.

There are several Newbie Friendly ladies here that Im sure can accomodate.

Have Fun.
sanantonioman37's Avatar
It happens to all of us from time to time, sorry you had to experience that.
Mature Companion's Avatar
What are you doing wrong? Nothing! You showed up where you were suppose to.
It's those two particular providers don't give a shit about you nor your time. Because a person who gave a damn, would NOT leave you waiting in a car in hot weather for 2 hours and never respond back to you when you have a booked date with them and given directions BY them to be at said destination!
That's rude and despicable on their part and there's NO excuse for said behavior.

Bring the Harley and I can assure you. You won't be waiting around twiddling your thumbs on beautiful hot afternoon.


First off I am a newbie, this week I have set up appt with 2 ladies both times they have sent me directions to go somewhere close to them. They say I will email or text my incall place, I go and wait for up to 2 hours and never get the final directions. I try to make plans days in advance. What the heck am I doing wrong. Originally Posted by HarleyMan1951
gooose's Avatar
Sorry to hear that. It may not be something you said or did. A few providers have a bad habit of NCNS from time to time. So my advice is research research and more research.
Chuck12's Avatar
Don't know. Perhaps there is something you are doing/saying that is putting them off. Try the newby friendly ladies and build up a repore and references. Originally Posted by JJ
I think you misread his post. He is not having trouble with scheduling, but the day off he does not get the directions after they have told him where to go near by, the first call of the "two call system." The guy is getting NC/NS not putting off a provider to schedule with him.

What are you doing wrong? Nothing! You showed up where you were suppose to.
It's those two particular providers don't give a shit about you nor your time. Because a person who gave a damn, would NOT leave you waiting in a car in hot weather for 2 hours and never respond back to you when you have a booked date with them and given directions BY them to be at said destination!
That's rude and despicable on their part and there's NO excuse for said behavior. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf
Harley, there could be several reasons why this happens, some providers do have personal stuff come up at the times of the appointments, but usually the good providers will contact you to let you know that they had to cancel and reschedule.

However, there are also the situations that WM describes in which providers just don't show up to their appointments or just decide to ignore the fact they had something set up.

My suggestion is to do more research and go with ladies that are known for being reliable with their appointments. You can find out info on reliability by doing a search for the name of the provider you are interested in seeing.
HarleyMan1951's Avatar
Thank all of you for your input. Will be doing better homework.