Ok,
This may be a dumb question, but I'll ask anyway. What do you wear to an appt as a hobbyist? I know...once you get there "nothing" or "birthday suit". Guys, what do you want to present? Ladies, what are you expecting?
cheers Mac
- mac969
- 06-05-2011, 11:01 AM
- PaganGuy
- 06-05-2011, 12:41 PM
Would be rather conspicuous to dress up to 'go run some errands' which is what I am usually on the record as doing when I'm visiting someone, so I'm a casual jeans and t-shirt kinda guy.. or I'm knocking off work early and in my work clothes.
- LeLana
- 06-05-2011, 01:49 PM
From a providers point of view, I would think she should be dressed in something sexy. Ive never understood why you would be in street clothes if your promoting sex appeal unless you've been requested to other wise. Presentation presentation presentation. As for the client, I love a well dressed man, love to watch him undress even more!! Really I guess it doesn't matter what you wear its all coming off as long as everyone is CLEAN!!!
- Guest080312-1
- 06-05-2011, 02:19 PM
Mac --
Pagan and LeLana BOTH raise excellent points.
Got an SO? Then, as Pagan implies, you don't want to look "out of the ordinary" as you depart directly from or return directly to an SO. Same is true if you're leaving/returning to a work environment full of nosey gossips. If you have an SO, then Woody Cialis's Coed thread, which is titled, "A Hobby Primer for the Married Man...", is MANDATORY reading: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=48854
I have no SO, and live by LeLana's "presentation, presentation, presentation": Dressed as if for a date, and wearing designer boxers with some sex appeal.
On choice of attire, it's also wise to take "setting" into account: for ex., if you show up at some young hottie's residence incall late on a weekday morning, "black-tie" might draw unwanted curiosity from her nosey neighbors; not so much on a Saturday night, especially if she's a more mature lady living in an upscale condo or apt.
As LeLena indicates, the most important thing is to be clean and well-groomed -- whether or not you're at liberty to "dress up."
Pagan and LeLana BOTH raise excellent points.
Got an SO? Then, as Pagan implies, you don't want to look "out of the ordinary" as you depart directly from or return directly to an SO. Same is true if you're leaving/returning to a work environment full of nosey gossips. If you have an SO, then Woody Cialis's Coed thread, which is titled, "A Hobby Primer for the Married Man...", is MANDATORY reading: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=48854
I have no SO, and live by LeLana's "presentation, presentation, presentation": Dressed as if for a date, and wearing designer boxers with some sex appeal.
On choice of attire, it's also wise to take "setting" into account: for ex., if you show up at some young hottie's residence incall late on a weekday morning, "black-tie" might draw unwanted curiosity from her nosey neighbors; not so much on a Saturday night, especially if she's a more mature lady living in an upscale condo or apt.
As LeLena indicates, the most important thing is to be clean and well-groomed -- whether or not you're at liberty to "dress up."
- sanantonioman37
- 06-05-2011, 03:06 PM
I usually wear jeans and polo/golf shirt. Nothing too fancy but definitely not showing up in sweat pants and torn up t-shirt.
- Guest101114
- 06-05-2011, 03:30 PM
I think nothing is as sexy as jeans and a Tshirt..............male or female!!
I usually wear a jean skirt with a fitted T
I'm pretty darn simple, and definally always looking cute
I usually wear a jean skirt with a fitted T
I'm pretty darn simple, and definally always looking cute
- yogi692
- 06-05-2011, 04:37 PM
I like something nice that I can get out of and back into easy enough....Jeans or Dockers work well and now that it is summer nice shorts and a glof shirt works great.
- Pepper_Springfield
- 06-05-2011, 04:59 PM
Doesn't matter to me as long as you dont look ghetto!
- sushiguy
- 06-05-2011, 05:10 PM
Incall- Pressed slacks and a button-up w/ polished shoes. First impressions and all.
Outcall- When I use to do them. My robe.
I guess it's a mutual respect thing. If the lady is getting all dolled up for me I feel obligated to return the favor. That and it's good hygiene.
Outcall- When I use to do them. My robe.
I guess it's a mutual respect thing. If the lady is getting all dolled up for me I feel obligated to return the favor. That and it's good hygiene.
- Guest080312-1
- 06-05-2011, 05:15 PM
Doesn't matter to me as long as you dont look ghetto!So, Pepper -- If I ever show up at your place, wearing a pair of Dickies that are so baggy, they're hanging below my butt crack; and my underwear's hanging out the back, you won't think I look cool and young at heart?
- MsPrittiKitti
- 06-05-2011, 07:27 PM
my hair & makeup are ALWAYS done!!
what "i" wear, depends on my mood...
sometimes ill wear a sexy black dress
lingerie
little shorts & t with no bra/panties
just birthday suit or towel
ive never had a gent complain (to my face
)
if he has a request- we can work it out
what "i" wear, depends on my mood...
sometimes ill wear a sexy black dress
lingerie
little shorts & t with no bra/panties
just birthday suit or towel
ive never had a gent complain (to my face
) if he has a request- we can work it out
- TrmaOne
- 06-05-2011, 08:56 PM
Casual for me or scrubs if after work....For the sexy lady...A sexy smile and a great personality is all they need....Oh...and a heart beat...just j/k..hehehe
- Guest101114
- 06-09-2011, 09:11 AM
Casual for me or scrubs if after work....For the sexy lady...A sexy smile and a great personality is all they need....Oh...and a heart beat...just j/k..hehehe Originally Posted by TrmaOneGotta love those scrubs <3 I'm just a little country girl-so if you don't like me in my cutoffs!! I'll cut you off!! Grrrrrrrr jk
- TrmaOne
- 06-09-2011, 09:48 AM
They make for easy access too!! Which is an added bonus in the heat of passion.
- Guest101114
- 06-09-2011, 01:02 PM
Mmmmmmm-I'm hungry!!