It wouldn't be so bad

If instead of guys making appointments with numerous girls and then not showing up, or worst yet calling to intentionally waste the girls time, they would just have a little decency and consider how that whole activity is not only childish it creates the paranoia and stand offish attitudes most of us have. It works both ways I'm sure but it has to start somewhere. Aside from that, our intention is to save each other from the con artists and deadbeats as well as the LE. Wouldn't it just be great if we worked together to build each other's positive energy instead of constantly playing with this one upmanship?

Good point and well said!!

Kay,
Unbelievably coincidental, where I am at the moment (elsewhere), I was cornered a couple hrs ago by a few gals that know I hobby, and they asked how the kc gals handle time wasters and no shows.
I was stuck sharing with them what some Houston gals had shared with me.
It's a respect issue. Some guys have it, a lot do not. And the only way the Houston gals could deal with it was decent referral checks and simply giving preference to their regulars. But, they still get hacked off when stood up. Almost in unison the club gals said "damn".

I agree cancellations should only happen if absolutely nessacary. When I come to KC to hobby its a 5 hour roundtrip for me. Two times this year I have drove in & after getting to KC had the provider cancel on me. Only once was I able to make contact with another provider on short notice. One of the appointments I had to get a room for our meeting & then was cancelled on.

One other time the lady had to cancel but I truly believe her reasoning was legit & she has offered to double our time when we meet again because of the inconvenience

unfortunately there is always going to be those who do it on both sides.

It has been very high in NC/NS in KC. But that's why regulars are good to have.
Xoxoxo
Nikki❤️

I've heard the same about KC.
It's also easier to get clients...harder to keep them.
A girl needs to bring her A game each time in order to keep em comin back.

Life happens to us all. often, the gentlemen as well as the ladies make contact with the intention of making and keeping an appointment. Then out of the blue something comes up that can’t be helped. Communication should be made as soon as possible, though there are those rare occasions where this may not be possible. The problem appears to be when these “rare occasions,” become the “norm” for either the certain ladies or gentlemen.

It has been very high in NC/NS in KC. But that's why regulars are good to have.
Xoxoxo
Nikki❤️ Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

amen...I have been blessed with a list of really great regulars in KC and most cities I visit...helps alot!
{it sucks to get to a city and get a nice hotel and set an enticing atmosphere up in my room and then BAM the bottom fall out!}.....but KC is good to me so I thank yall immensely!

For me, I've never NC/NS a date and luckily I have never had to cancel on a gal. (Hope I didn't just jinx myself !!!!). Majority of my dates are set up a few days in advance and most are "earlybirds" and the girls I see have great TCB skills.

I think i have only had to cancel 3 appointments in several years. I dont want to. Its like having to take an unpaid sick day. It sucks. I know if one of my regulars cancel that its legit. Seeing a new guy, there is always that chance. This is why both sides need to screen and well!

Yes! The high volume of NC/NS is why I have started taking deposits and enforcing a cancellation policy. Even if they don't care here, p411 will make the client take care of the cancellation policy if they are verified on there..

I've had gals cancel before and I hard to say if the reason was legit or not. But the ones that would frustrate me is when they simply dont respond which I have read a lot about. Nikki I would never pay a deposit I'm surprised other guys would

I've had gals cancel before and I hard to say if the reason was legit or not. But the ones that would frustrate me is when they simply dont respond which I have read a lot about. Nikki I would never pay a deposit I'm surprised other guys would Originally Posted by GoBlue34z

This is a cash business! Never, ever use a credit card in the hobby.

There are more than a few ladies who have grabbed the cash and dashed out the door, never to be seen again. Or, once the get the cash on the table they cut the time short.

Never pay a deposit for a visit that might never happen, even if you have seen the lady before.

I have had to cancel for various reasons at last minute but NEVER ncns or ghosted on a gent! Thats tacky!
{everybody knowsd I am very very close with my kids and grandkids and they sometimes have issues that ALWAYS trumps work}



AND if I do I always make it up to the gent with a discount or such!!

I do have paypal so if a gent cancells last minute and IF he wqants to compensate me a little then he can...never required but MUCH appreciated!!

Lol you say never pay a deposit, but you are only thinking at one side of the coin. For me, I have got confirmation multiple times right before I leave for an appointment, they never show. Some of them reputable, all verified. But I wasted my gas, sometimes even getting a room for nothing. So, this is why I don't host anymore, take deposits and enforce the cancellation policy. You may see it as whatever you like, but when it comes down to it...clients have cancelled way more than the women do. And most of the snatch and run bullshit women have reports/alerts on them. So that is up to the client if they choose to see shady ladies....that is super upsetting that men don't see things from our point of view. Half of you will read part of this & start arguing instead of reading & listening to what we say....