Are you talking civie dating or seeing ladies in the hobby?
I'm single and have been for a while by choice. Had 3 ladies as a young twenty something all either cheat on me or then one revealed she had a fiance miles away back home. She was an intern. After three too many disappointments, I joined the hobby. I always dated women close to my age. Real world speaking.
In the hobby, I always saw milfs at the start. Better sex, no strings, and overall better sessions. Many relations evolved into dinners, movies, and drinks. Sex after or before. Got close to one, but we stopped before it went anywhere. She was fifteen years older and would have loved to date her or go further. But i'm not honestly here for that. Dated another a year older than me a year after that for 4 months as she took a liking to me and dropped that really quick. Who ever I click with, regardless of age is cool with me to see regularly and see where it goes. So age to me, really doesn't matter as opposed to compatibility. But theres a fine line between love and dating. Get that one straight.
Some say age matters, others do not. Depends who you talk to and if its hobby related or real world affairs. Having been in the hobby now for some time, age does not matter. A woman who I am very attracted to does.
Originally Posted by Dr Grey
For lack of better words, I meant “dating” in the sense of what goes on in the the hobby. I didn’t want to be too blunt.
And yes — I’m glad that you acknowledge and respect boundaries.
In this corner of paradise, I’d imagine that there is a fine line between fantasy and reality, and it can be incredibly easy to cross the line, or blur it when emotions and hormones are high.