For the ladies requiring references

I'm sure this has been asked, possibly by myself, but no recollection. When you are a very light hobbyist like myself who might set up 1 visit every few months, it's a pain to keep up to date references. Quite a few people I'd like to visit require them, so obviously I can't see them. I'm not looking for anyone to bemd their rules, I'm just seeing if there is another option. Tia.

See girls that see newbies or don't care about references. Personally I have had shitty references. So yes I accept them but that's not the only thing I look at...haven't I seen you?

Try a verification service like Preferred 411. It was helpful to me

Yeah but they are changing all that come January I believe. Maybe just see someone so you can get a recent reference

See girls that see newbies or don't care about references. Personally I have had shitty references. So yes I accept them but that's not the only thing I look at...haven't I seen you? Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

I don't believe I've had the pleasure of meeting you as of yet. Thank you for the responses too.

I now realize I haven't visited you because you're mainly outcall. When you post incall available next, I intend to try and change that though.

I’ve seen a lot of Providers say they honor references if you’ve seen them in the last 6-12 months , most only require 2.. for future reference maybe ask your providers pretty close to when you’ve visited with them if you can use them for a reference, keep their information stored in a email or something & you should be good (when someone asks me for a reference, they only have to ask once lol not everytime)

Might also just need to contact directly & see if they have alternative screening methods

I hear this a lot. I often will see someone if they email me about their situation. Especially if they are forthcoming with info, such as where they work, etc. Dont give up!💋






QUOTE=That_guy_over_there;1060 811606]I'm sure this has been asked, possibly by myself, but no recollection. When you are a very light hobbyist like myself who might set up 1 visit every few months, it's a pain to keep up to date references. Quite a few people I'd like to visit require them, so obviously I can't see them. I'm not looking for anyone to bemd their rules, I'm just seeing if there is another option. Tia.[/QUOTE]

Considering the shut down and personal schedules I try to be flexible. There are a handful of women from oklahoma that I accept their references no matter how old because we have met and they’ve been wonderful friends outside the community

You can try low volume providers who don't keep a huge backlog of clients or calls. Making a good first impression can be as simple as dressing really well or telling a funny joke. You may even find one you'll see more often than just one time. good luck to you