I've learned over the years that providers make terrible sugar babies. They're transaction-focused, and too practiced to even let the illusion of chemistry make an appearance - which is a non-starter.
I threw money at one until I learned better, offered a house and a car to another to give her stability - and this is probably going to be a terrible waste of typing, but I am prosaic:
I'm looking for a slim, attractive 20-45 year old woman to spoil. Beyond my own rugged good looks and charm, I have superb taste in the finer things in life...and no one to share those things with. Be it a sunset, an expensive bottle of wine, or an all-expenses-paid vacation cruise, I'm missing someone to appreciate these things with. It it zero effort for someone to go home and poke their wife, or hire a provider and poke her. I require the elegance, sophistication, and wit to keep up, run beyond, and inspire me - to make me feel like someone shares my secrets and is interested in me and my eclectic tastes...and who will also not breathe a word of me or my secrets to anyone, anywhere.
Having the means to live life to its fullest has proven less interesting when the person I'm doing it with isn't interested in any of it.