Are you REALLY a newbie ....

I sometimes do not understand when I receive a message from a guy and he claims he is a newbie but when I look at his profile he's been active since 2017 no encounters but several iso post. How could you be a newbie and not seen any providers in a year? I understand because of the shutdown there is a gap. But some of these guys be really trolling...

Many members are lurkers.

Many members are lurkers. Originally Posted by pyramider

And don't assume every encounter gets posted up, that guy could be having a couple of encounters monthly and not reporting it or he can be a serial killer also

I really am sort of new, but I seen a lot of handles that I be asking the same question about

I've been here since 2015. But my original id accidently got outed. I had about 25 reviews under that old ID. When I signed back up under my new ID, I decided that I wouldn't do reviews. it turns out that our reviews are open to google. So now, I only comment on those that I've seen in areas that are not accessible to google or any search engines.

So from my perspective, I'm highly experienced if you count that I've see about 2 dozen women a year, but have only reviewed 1. Yet, with only one official review under my belt, I look like a newbie.

Some woman won't see a guy without P411 or a lot of reviews, so I just made the conscience decision that if they won't see me because it looks like I'm a newbie, then I'll just give the money to someone else that will see me.

I'm a newbie

I must be a true Oldie, because I remember when redcat really was a newbie! as for MJ, the term "lifetime premium access" under a handle screams VETERAN..

.. so I just made the conscience decision that if they won't see me because it looks like I'm a newbie, then I'll just give the money to someone else that will see me. Originally Posted by Massagejunkyie69

I'm sure that you have references to give to providers you wanna see when you contact them and they ask for them. These guys do not have references, been on here for more than a year, and post ISO's all the time.

I just had a guy from P411 been on there 3 years with no Okays
no refences so I had to re screened him .
lot of guys join and don't hobby , then one day they are like
hey you available now ..

There are guys that will claim newbie but have about 5 encounters...lol..

or like me who doesn't review.

or like me who doesn't review. Originally Posted by bandit007

Thanks for valuable contribution. Pfff

Shy, nervous, I know I lurked for almost a year before I had the nerve to jump in. I needed to figure things out, how it worked, the abbreviations. I had no coach or instruction manual. It's a big step for some of us. And as BLM stated, not all encounters are documented. Not everyone is here for the trophy count. I just review the girls who ask for a review.

Nobody is saying you have to have reviews. However you still need to have references. Big difference.

Very true Katrina. Its ok if you dont like doing reviews. I understand tthat part. But if you have had an account for a long period of time and cannot provide not one reference your just wasting our time.