BB brought to my attention

I'm not one to judge or point fingers, but when my and my friends are put at risk, I have to ask.

It has been brought to my attention (no proof) that some credible, local providers provide BB services to men over 50. I don't know if this is a rumor or not, but what does age have to do with anything?

If she does it with you, do you think you are the only one? On top of that, you expect providers to give bbbj? If you used a provider that didn't use protection as a reference, would you be mad when another provider gave you a cbj?

I hope this is all false, but Im afraid it may not be.

Really cannot answer your question Heidi, as for me, I will not engage without a condom, does not matter what she offers me, and I am not 50 yet, turning, 29 again this year!!

Understand I am speaking only of coitus, oral has to be BBBJ for me or I will not see her, I do not get mad, those are her rules but I also will not play. If a lady after taking the exchange, tells me at that time CBJ, I will review her and also post notices of her manipulative and scheming ways. Has never happened to me yet. I know my info impacts their profits, too many ladies have told me so. I have no evil intentions but if she knows I am a only BBBJ guy and takes the envelope and then says CBJ, she lied - simple and that is info I feel my fellow hobbyiests need.

A) Sounds like a rumor. B) BBBJ for me. C) Ladies I'm over 50. D) goin fishin.

I have not heard anything...probably true though
{there are always a few "women willing to take the wrong risks"}

as far me,no bb...except bbbj!

I certainly hope it is a rumor and unless I see it with my own eyes, it's all hypothetical. I just thought it was a rediculous justification.

Stay smart and safe ya'll!

I have heard way to many rumors not to believe it.

What does the age have to do with it? Are they saying men over 50 are safer?

Red, I don't know. Regardless of age, it's simply irresponsible.

Guys, I meant for this to be a discussion about safety. Please don't PM me for names, because it's all second hand info. I'm not going there. My mailbox is overflowing.


However; if I should ever witness this first hand, I will post in the Alert section.

Well ladies all i can say is........ NOT ME!!!! I think that whatever women are doing this are absolutley re DICK ULOUS!!!!!! STAYING SAFE IS WHAT I LIKE TO DO!!!!!

That is an interesting topic. I must say I've always wondered why some would BBBJ at all in that profession. I prefer BBBJ, so first, thank you for the ladies willing to do so, but it's just as high of risk contracting something doing that as doing BB sex is it not? There are plenty of STD's that can be contracted orally so what makes that safer than sex without a condom? Especially if you're a CIM kind of provider. I'm just asking because I always wondered what the rationale was for doing one but not the other.

Stay safe and hot, Miss Maddy!

Safety should be a NUMBER 1 PRIORITY for all...!

BBBJ...YES! Condoms taste like shit even with flavored lube
BBFS...NOT! Are you effing kidding?

Heidilynn is right...If she does it with you, do you think you are the only one?
BTW...Do you really even think you were the first?

ditto with sexy Miss J!!!

{nice avatar maddy!}

It has been brought to my attention (no proof) that some credible, local providers provide BB services to men over 50......I hope this is all false, but Im afraid it may not be. Originally Posted by heidilynnla

So if those men who happen to be 50.....or any age use this mystery provider as a reference will you see them Heidi, or will you assume he engages in unsafe activities regularly. Would you feel inclined to give them the disclaimer that bareback services were not on the menu?

I know when a lady tells me bareback full service is not on menu or she's drug and disease free I start to worry little. Not because of what she is sayin......but why of all times is she saying this now? With the exception of BBBJ it should be a known "no-no." Why would she even ask this of a regular normal hobbyist? Does she get propositioned by potential clients regularly for this? Is one of my references known for it? Is she known for it and has been bombarded in new guys wanting said service from her?

I don't believe that every hobbyist that comes in touch with the mystery ladies does participate in bbfs. I don't assume they are offering it to all clients either. Luckily, I don't think it would make or break me to decline an appointment from an occasional someone using them as a reference. I would most likely have a "scheduling" conflict.