Just suck it up and pay the fee.
Trying to share a membership is not a very bright idea.
Two people would have to use the same profile.
Both would have access to private conversations,
What if you are both interested in the same lady?
If one guy is a dumb ass he would screw it up for the other guy.
There are so many more reasons why this wouldn't work I just don't have the time or energy to list them.