Having a moment...

I am curious, I have tried to be a good person and a great provider and a postive influence on the board. Maybe its just me, but I still feel somewhat like an outsider. So, even with the chance that I will probably hear more than I want, here goes: What's wrong with Nicolet? I have read a few don't like my age, ok. What else could it be?

Nicolet, you are definitely on MY pedestal hon, and we are not intimately acquainted yet.

I look forward to seeing you ... I am retired these days, which is wonderful, but it means I have to space out my fun funds more than I did when I was in the corporate rat race.

Of course, maybe what it is, is I'm a relative newbie so we're BOTH outsiders.

nicolet i have never met you,but this is a very {OBVIOUS} post.

Of course its obvious, that's why I posted it. Getting my ego stroked is not my main purpose, but I do want to know what it is that keeps some from contacting me. Much older than most, I got that. Not a spinner, ok. There is always room for improvement and hearing some positive things is good too.

Since I have a "feeling" I know what you are talking about, I think it is fair that I answer you honestly. I am not writing this to be mean, I only write this because you asked the question. Honesty can be a hard thing to hear, and write, at times.

I don't consider you an outsider in the least. The problem that I have is the constant appeal for attention. Its off-putting. For me, its having the exact opposite reaction that you would desire. I compare it to athletes that do something ordinary, or what they are supposed to do, and then celebrate like they won a world championship. They are only celebrate to draw attention to themselves. There are other ways of meeting clients.

Look, I don't know what it is like to be a provider. I can only imagine it is hard as hell. Fair, or unfair, you are constantly being judged, prodded, and compared to others. Everything from your hair, teeth, breath, breasts and even your toes. I know I couldn't do it. I would imagine that you have to be totally secure with yourself and comfortable in your own skin. That's impossible since all of us have some insecurity of one type or another.

Hang in there. You are a good provider. Let your reviews speak for you.

Great info, thanks. Keeping a low profile might be a good idea.

I do not think there is anything wrong with you, if you are happy with you and you like yourself. That simple. I do not care what others think of me, I like me, simple. I am not going to change who I am for some hobby or some potential business.

I used to write plenty of reviews about Nikki Tylor, I saw her weekly for a very long time. I asked in here if others thought I wrote too much on her, I wrote about her on the other site befre becoming a member here as well. A very smart person responded and it sticks today, "What do you care what some people on an internet website think? If you, Outdoorsman enjoy writing, then do it." So, I post as often as I like.

I decided to be an honest, polite, and upbeat person, not because it gets me business but because I am happiest that way. I turn down clients that want me to lie or become viscious, it is not me and no amount of money is worth my happiness, just me. I am fortunate that I earn enough to live a good life style and hobby as frequently as I deem necessary.

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Very well said

sweetheart, there's nothing wrong with you..... i love mature ladies !!!

quite frankly, if I was going to drop $$$, i'd call one of those pyt's with good reviews, but I'm also younger, and care as much about the physical attraction as much as the experience.

that's not to say you want me to call anyways, but i thought i'd provide my opinion.

I like older women and have been with ladies your age when I was younger than I am now, but I picked them up a more traditional way. it's not the age for me

I have seen your posts and reviews, and haven't really thought twice about your age since I am not that far behind you. I have been interested in seeing you, but I just haven't been able to make it happen up to this point. I guess I don't get to the northshore that often, but it still may happen.

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I wish you nothing but the best babe!!