I GUESS BIG GIRLS CANT HAVE FUN....

So before the break I took from the forums I was significantly thinner than I am now Upon returning I guess I sort of expected that maybe I would still be getting people interested in hanging out but maybe just different ones than before or maybe there'd be a couple people that really did enjoy my personality and the change in body type wasn't a problem for.... because in the time that I was active I think that I really did make some good connections with some of y'all. And the number one piece of feedback I got from everyone throughout my hobby experience in KC was it would love if I could get a residential in call instead of a hotel I've done that but I since returning have had almost to know messages on here or by text not including the quite a few nasty body shaming related messages or gentleman I've seen before trying to lowball me ridiculously because apparently since my body type has changed my time is not valued as much asit was before. Not naming any names or calling anybody out really just looking for some honest feedback from the gentleman on am I just unappealing now or is there something else that's the problem? Also I apologize for any grammatical errors I just typed this up real quick as sort of event on my phone and did the best I could to proofread.

Nobody should ever have to deal with body shaming at all. It's a complete and total douchebag move by people with more body issues than you. Don't let that get to you at all. It has nothing to do with you, just with them.


It's shame/mockery in this business that a lot of people do believe bigger girls should be compensated less. I have no idea where this nothing comes from, but it does exist. And some guys are just low ballers that want to play, but can't really afford to. So they try gunning for what they think is low hanging fruit to play in a hobby that is not for them.



Don't let any of this get to you, it will pass. Work on your brand, maybe rebrand into a new BBW phoenix out of the ashes.




Your always be my ATF

Just stick with it. There’s plenty of gentlemen in Kc that love to play with the ladies that are curvy.

And also, don’t body shame period. Guys if we’re not your type just move on.

I don't have any room to shittalk anybody's appearance, believe me. I look like hammered shit on my best day. I'd sure like to get a gander at some of these "gentleman" 11's you mentioned bothering you so I can ask them why they are cruising a SHMB.

Can you mention their handles in ladies lounge? I would love to know who says that crap. If its not breaking rules

You’re a sweet beautiful young lady! Please don’t let this rudeness get you down

Can you mention their handles in ladies lounge? I would love to know who says that crap. If its not breaking rules Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

She absolutely can!

Try this as honest feedback from some one that looks at your profile:

The 3 pictures you have are quite poor. Not sexy and are of low quality/res/lighting/etc

too, your reviews while all positive, at least for me with no premium access, are not accessible due to the forum purge or whatever that was recently. People want to read reviews, it tells us what's on the menu in most instances. You have a significant history of "yes" reviews but the forum as it is now, or was then, seems to be working against you.

May be you run a new review special price? Better quality pics would help. I know 5' 2" with DDs is my particularly taste but as I look at what your profile is NOW, there's little there to entice me.

Baby girl, don't let those losers drag you down. I'm sure you are not missing a thing by not meeting them.

Guys who bag on a woman's body usually have their own body issues, generally relating to their small penises. Once I had a guy refer to my stomach as a shitstorm. His dick looked like my big toe. See the correlation?

Smooth them boys on off! And rock those curves!

I think you should report these guy’s handles in the WL, a-holes like that don’t deserve to see anyone. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with body shaming, I’ve dealt with it myself. Years ago I used to be a spinner, lol! You’re beautiful the way you are & if you’re comfortable in the skin you’re in, who cares about anyone else’s opinion? It’s a shame some of these guys have the audacity to say some of the crap they do to ladies on this site.
Keep your head up, you lose crappy clientele just to gain even better!

I am sorry that you have had to be on the receiving end of calls and messages like that. There is no reason in the world to be rude like that. You used the word gentlemen but those aren't gentlemen.
I think Smooth645570 might be on to something. In real estate it is called curb appeal. You have your own private incall, which is good. Capitalize on that and some sexy photos. That is what business does to get people in the door. This might be called a hobby but it still is a business to you girls. Once you get them in the door, your personality will keep them coming back.

Sexier pics, good advertising, and fresh reviews, will likely help.

Also, if people are posting rude, disrespectful, insulting, or harassing comments or PMs, report those to the staff by hitting this button:

I have seen Miss Annabelle several times and as soon as she came back...i was sooo happy.
Some of most fun I have had have been with girls who have the curves.
I love most all body types...but Annabelle is one of the kindest and sweetest women I know! And she is sexy as hell.
Yes i will Wk her...i will always be a supporter of the ladies...
Annabelle if you let us know who they are...we will take them down the spiderhole!!

Lots of good advice on here! Annabell, you are a very pretty girl and trust me, there are guys who like EVERY shape and size of girl. And around here, there are guys who like to see a variety of ladies.

My boy, RocketSurgeon is correct...and a very smart and sweet guy on top of that. Get a few better pictures. Even if they are selfies. Play up your lovely tatas, silky hair and pretty face. Those are the things guys like. And increase your positive marketing efforts here.

Additionally, I applaud you and I promise many guys appreciate that you came back with recent pics instead of using old ones.

Come visit the ladies lounge for advice. There are several larger ladies who are VERY popular and helpful. And yes, a private incall is a good idea!

You can do this!

We all age & most of us gain weight over time. Those who feel the need to shame others are usually mirroring things about themselves. Stay Golden and you will prosper. Let Karma handle the ones waisting your time because they don't like themselves.xoxo