In my hobby life I'm definitely Dominant, my sub side doesn't jive well with giving up control to a stranger.
But I've been a sub in a couple relationships and I have a penchant for receiving a birthday spanking ( equal to the number of years I'm turning) multiple times hopefully.
Unfortunately the past few years I've been without a partner who's into the spanking and all I can think about lately is being spanked, paddled, or having a crop used on me.
Anyone else love the spanking (birthday or non birthday)?
Experiences in allowing a "friend" to spank you during an arranged date?