I dropped an ATF of 8 years after I was attacked by her "boyfriend" of 2 weeks. I know he was nothing more than a client who had gotten possessive. She also told me he had attacked her neighbor and thrown him down a staircase because they were watching TV together one night. When I found out she was still having this crazy jealous guy over to her place, I figured I am too damn old to fight for a woman who is not my wife or children. My health is too important to challenge some crazy jealous person.
Since she wanted him, I left and and have never looked back.