TOTALLY CONFUSED... Not Really

Im just curious. Its kind of funny and I think I know the answer.

Why do guys have gals they believe in and think will be awesome references for them, end up being let down because the gals never responds? Or they respond a week OR 2 or even 3 weeks later. But then said girls REACH OUT TO YOU or another provider wanting a reference lol. In what world does that make sense.

IF YOU ARE NOT REFERENCES FRIENDLY and YOU NEED TO TRY TO KEEP SAID GENT TO YOUR SELF, let it be KNOWN. Im young and still realize that we should support, protect and evolve. Those that are NOT REFERENCE FRIENDLY should be proud and shout it from the MOUNTAIN TOPS SO ITS TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD AND SO GENTS AND OTHER GIRLS DO NOT WASTE TIME CONTACTING OR ATTEMPTING TO CONTACT YOU. I respond to EVERY REFERENCE in a timely manner. This s!&* is confusing especially when this is SUPPOSED to be a vibrant community.We make a list for EVERYTHING ELSE, make a list of girls that ARE NOT REFERENCE FRIENDLY and delay you guys from meeting someone new and hot. That way we can move beyond and way pass them and have a good time, which is the meaning of this I thought......

This is an issue I’ve had is that references I list either don’t respond or take forever to get back to the new provider so I miss out on the potential encounter.

I missed a great opportunity in Louisville a couple of months back because no one responded in a timely manner, even though I had contacted the provided a couple of weeks in advance.

Common courtesy people.

Have a great day!

PS If you haven't meet Kat yet, you should!

PS If you haven't meet Kat yet, you should! Originally Posted by georgeeccie

I haven’t actually but she’s definitely on my radar if she makes it to the Memphis area!

Sweetie, this happens more often than you know. It is one reason I dont rely on references alone. These guys dont deserve to be overlooked because of anothers selfishness.