Rules and Regs

Been searching the forums waiting to be 'vetted' by the admin, getting a general feel for the community. Y'all mostly chill with a dash of drama.

Anyways, I'm finding it hard to understand how things work around here, nevermind the acronyms. I understand 'be a gent' these are ladies after all, but is it common to develop longer lasting relationships, or should I say regular encounters? Is it too hasty to ask such things in first convos or should I wait for first encounters? How patient are the ladies with waiting to chat first before meeting and is it rude if I break off contact based on text exchange? Lastly, I'm sure each lady values her time differently, is there a going rate or general rule of thumb?

Much love and appreciation from a first timer

~Scout

heya
welcome!

are you from new orleans?

I think we all would like our clients to become regulars but you usually won’t know until the first meeting if something like that will work out.

I personally like to chat a bit with newbies but all providers vary. I won’t talk about any services though. And dislike talking about rates.

Every provider has different donations. If you know what you’re comfortable with seek out those providers. Don’t haggle.

Good luck in your search!

I understand 'be a gent' these are ladies after all, but is it common to develop longer lasting relationships, or should I say regular encounters? Long lasting dance partners are real common. Some hobbyist always have a regular or two in the dance card.



Is it too hasty to ask such things in first convos or should I wait for first encounters? Usually first encounters are all about feeling each other out(pun intended). Sometimes there's chemistry sometimes not. Don't really want to discuss it till after I decide on regular material, or hit em and quit em.



How patient are the ladies with waiting to chat first before meeting and is it rude if I break off contact based on text exchange? Depends on the lady. Some ladies want to feel out somebody before they meet, some ladies are mad you sent two messages and haven't set appointment yet. Screening goes both ways, if I get a bad feeling on text then break it off quickly. Happens a lot. Originally Posted by ZuluKrewe

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Recent trip Dallas, hell of a town.

Appreciate the insight, Kati. Would you say it’s like going to a benefit dinner, agree to pay for the plate and the seat and then donate to the cause at the event?

Thanks for the advice Baggins. I like dance partners, especially when you jive

Recent trip Dallas, hell of a town. Originally Posted by ZuluKrewe

Did you get a coconut?

The text exchange part is individual to a particular providers choice. Some don't mind the texting, others consider it a waste of their time. Usually any more texting than is necessary to set up an appointment is considered excessive by many providers. This isn't dating, its business; so texting just to chat is typically frowned upon.

Woohoo Zulu parade rocks..I still have 2 coconuts from there and my time living in New Orleans..lol

Best advice in my opinion..is what the gent above me said!

I like flirting via text and email before AND after our meetup...but ONLY if you have met me before OR youre respectful and provide your reference info in a timely manner.

Welcome to the jungle, Mr. Crewe.