http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=254604
Here's my responce to Belinda's post there:
nobody books from lack of intel on new traveling girls from what i hear Originally Posted by elegantbelindaIf that is the excuse you are being given then these guys are:
A: Lazy, more than enough infomation out there about you. Just have to look, a quick check of your reviews tells all you need to make a decision.
B: Stupid, they can't seem to find the info that is out there about you, this one is very hard to believe.
C: Being dishonest with their reason so as not to hurt your feelings for their initial lack of intrest in you.
D: Too damn cheap to want quality, while bitching about the lack of quality here.
E: All of the above.
Now in the case of Belinda I am guilty of not contacting her to show my intrest in her coming to Nashville but I am sick of falling victim to what I am calling the Nashville curse. It happens time and time again, you see the ladies ad saying she's going to be making a stop in Nash. You do your research and find she's someone you'd like to see. You make contact, send your screening info, pass screening, set a date and time to see eachother. You excitedly wait for the day to come.......................... .............................. .............................. .
AND BAM!!!! You get the "I'm so sorry but not going to be able to make it (insert various reason here), hope you understand."
Now while I do believe that things happen, it seems to happen way to often when it comes to Nashville. I'm also not going to expect a provider to visit here if there is not enough draw for her, this is after all a business and she has costs that must be accounted for before making a visit to a city. I've even gone so far as to offer to pay a ladies travel and hotel expences to get her to visit out here for a couple of days, she posted a thread to see if there would be any intrest in her visiting. After a week, there was not enough intrest to justify her making the trip. Now this was a well respected, well known and also very well reviewed lady from the Dallas area. Come on guys what gives? Is there not enough active and vocal guys from Nashville and the surrounding areas here on ECCIE?
So guys, does this happen to you as well or is there something more keeping ladies out of Nashville?
Ladies, what are your reasons for not visiting, please your no holds barred reasons? If we don't know it's broke we can't fix it.
Is Nashville really that disintrested that you feel no reason to visit here?
Then again I could just be all alone in my feelings on this.