I became very sick last night, I still don’t feel well and I didn’t know we had confirmed anything, we never set a place, only a time. I’m very new and learning as I go, I don’t think it’s fair to say I’m not legit. I’m very legit, I got very sick and didn’t check my messages until tonight. Thank you to the guys who are being patient with me being the new girl. I can only get better Muah xxooxxoo
Originally Posted by JoyLoves
I can't speak for other guys, but as for me: too much communication is better than too little.
If you and I had agreed on a time, I'd want to know if you were too sick to see me at that time, even if we hadn't agreed on a place yet. If we've set a time, I'm going to start preparing to see you (clearing my schedule for that day/time, etc.), and if you suddenly go silent you're going to inconvenience me. Unless you have a damn good excuse for radio silence (not just sick but laying comatose in the ER, say), going silent on me isn't going to make a good first impression.
And you know what they say: you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.
Ok... hopefully you learned a good lesson here. Good luck in the future.
Cheers,
bcg