Real World Info

I understand and agree with screening from both parties prior to a private excursion, but how do you handle a provider (known or not) that asks for your real name, phone number and email for their screening purposes?

Ladies, how do you handle a client that does not "hobby" very frequently, and how do you use the information provided? Are the eccie handles and posted reviews not enough?

Nobody should be asking for real world info - from guys or providers. And nobody should give it out. Never.

Eccie handles and reviews mean nothing because that's easy to fake. I prefer using references whenever I can. I've become stricter about screening since all the stings have been going on. If I haven't seen you before and you don't have references then I will use real world info. I refuse to even chance getting in trouble. If you're not comfortable with giving out real world info then make sure you have some providers willing to be a reference. I only use the info given to verify things, then it's deleted from my phone

Eccie handles and reviews mean nothing because that's easy to fake. I prefer using references whenever I can. I've become stricter about screening since all the stings have been going on. If I haven't seen you before and you don't have references then I will use real world info. I refuse to even chance getting in trouble. If you're not comfortable with giving out real world info then make sure you have some providers willing to be a reference. I only use the info given to verify things, then it's deleted from my phone Originally Posted by Emily3292

I AGREE WITH EMILY I DO THE SAME AS WELL AND I HAVE NOT HAD ANY ISSUES TO BE HONEST. ITS NOT MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE. I HONESTLY WOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT GOING TO SEE A PROVIDER WHO DOESNT SCREEN. WHICH UNFORTUNATELY THERE ARE SOME FEMALES WHO DONT AND THAT'S A MESS I WOULD THINK WE ALL WANT TO AVOID.

Well not all ladies feel the need to ask for that kind of info. But also want to be safe. I say go with you gut, if you are not sure then don't give out your real world info. Personally I fallow my gut. You always want to play safe and be safe. Remember that we don't want any trouble just as you don't.

Screening is essential. Screen me here through my reviews and my posts and I can give you a dozen current provider references. But don’t ask for my name, where I work, my photo, or a copy of my drivers license. Would you send that to someone you don’t know ? You then have no control as to where that info ultimately can end up.

Just go to the safe you seem to need in your truck and get it and show it to her already

I no longer accept references in West Texas with the exception of two ladies as references... The reason for this is the lack of response from 75% of West Texas providers... And the jealousy from the other 15% who get upset at a gentleman wanting to see someone other than them... (wrong industry if your gonna get jealous ladies) I also no longer give references to those who choose not to respond to past request...

It sucks for the gentleman that want to use references for screening method or have me as a reference but I blame it solely on the ladies and their lack business etiquette... West Texas has become the only city currently, I do not accept references as a screening option and alternate screening is required...

As the other ladies mentioned... Eccie reviews are not enough as anyone could post a review... Unless the meeting is verified by the provider... It means nothing... Too bad ladies can't post on reviews and confirm the meeting... Things would be sooooo much easier!!

Yes anyone could post a fake review or two. But not dozens or scores or over a 100 over the course of many years. There has to be a point that you can trust reviews as a reference. If you can’t then it won’t work, but I promise you I am not sending anyone a copy of my drivers license or my photo or information about my place of employment, which is how this whole thread started. Please screen and work to verify real providers and reliable guys - but both sides must be reasonable.

Thank you all for the consideration in responding to my thread and valued feedback.

Not so easy when they can speaka English and can actually refuse you, eh froggy mountain?