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Lorenzo Gilyard convicted in 2007 - Killed 6 women in Kansas City
Terry Blair convicted in 2004 - killed 7 women in Kansas City
Derek Richardson convicted 2013 - killed 2 women in Kansas City
Gregory Breedon suspected but never convicted- killing and mutilating 7 women in Kansas City
Sam Little convicted 2014 - 30 women confirmed killed up to 90 more being investigated across the entire county
Jerry Westrom charged 2019 - killed woman in 1993 and just now caught!

And countless unsolved murders in kansas city alone of women who may never see justice.

Gentlemen, I understand the whole not wanting to give out your RW information during screening...i do...you dont want to be outed or caught...we have that same worry...no one wants to have their RW info out there...no one wants to get robbed or hurt...but to ensure our safety so we dont become the next news story we ask for certain information...do you think Lorenzo Gilyard would give out his RW info to anyone he saw...no because he had ulterior motives, a reason to hide...please remember these women are risking their lives every day!!!

Thank you to everyone that has been so kind to me while i was here...you ladies are amazing ...and to the gents... it was fun...ive met some truly wonderful people but the risk is not worth the reward for me...all it takes is one bad apple to spoil the bunch...im lucky to still be alive...dont take anything for granted and dont put anyone in any danger...if you want it to be fun it is up to everyone to keep it fun...respect one another and watch out for each other...with as much love as i can send to you all...Love you guys!

Goodbye everyone Stay safe
Brandi Grovey

Good luck in whatever you choose to do miss Brandi

Providers should not have to accept a level of screening they are not comfortable with. Clients should not give out any information they are not comfortable with. So everyone needs to do what is right for them as each of us has our own acceptable levels of risk; and there are clients and providers that match our level of risk.



Good luck in your endeavors, Brandi.

all it takes is one bad apple to spoil the bunch...im lucky to still be alive...dont take anything for granted and dont put anyone in any danger... Originally Posted by Brandi Grovey

Did something happen? I sure hope nothing bad happened while you were here.

I'm still recovering from the recent robbery, but it does seem like the hobby is getting more and more dangerous around here.

Sounds like something happened KC. I hope you the best Brandi, on whatever the future has in store. As Fsn57 says, don't compromise your screening. In the end, all we want is to leave in the exact shape as we came. Except, both with a smile. Just one more story why the hobby should be legalized.

I'm still recovering from the recent robbery, but it does seem like the hobby is getting more and more dangerous around here. Originally Posted by KCRoyalty

We truly hope you the best in what you do, and sorry if anything bad has happened here in KC. Best wishes Brandi.

It's not just the ladies things happen to. There have been several other guys, so you are not alone KCRoyalty.

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Thank you to everyone that has been so kind to me while i was here...you ladies are amazing ...and to the gents... it was fun...ive met some truly wonderful people but the risk is not worth the reward for me...all it takes is one bad apple to spoil the bunch...im lucky to still be alive...dont take anything for granted and dont put anyone in any danger...if you want it to be fun it is up to everyone to keep it fun...respect one another and watch out for each other...with as much love as i can send to you all...Love you guys!

Goodbye everyone Stay safe
Brandi Grovey Originally Posted by Brandi Grovey

Bandi,

I personally am sorry to see you go, and I have never seen you. I do very extensive screening and observing what a lady has written and how the relates to others. Everything about you is refreshing and rewarding.

Reading a ladies comments tells us more than what the reviews say about her. Why, because some of the reviews are written by pimps who just want to promote business, others are just guys trying to brag as if they were in a high school locker room

You are a sweet, and caring lady. Sorry I missed meeting you. You are the type of lady that would be rewarding to take on a regular date, and get to know better.

If a guy doesn’t want to give out screening info he’s not the type of guy most providers would want to see anyways.

I hope whatever happened, you’re okay. Good luck in the future

If a guy doesn’t want to give out screening info he’s not the type of guy most providers would want to see anyways... Originally Posted by KatiforYou

Actually, if a guy doesn't want to give out what a particular provider asks for, he's not the type of guy THAT provider wants to see. Providers have a whole spectrum of screening requirements. Some want RW info, others don't need it. Some want references, other don't even require that much. What works for one provider may not be sufficient for another provider. It has nothing to do with the "type" of guy, just matching perceived risk levels on both parties. Neither party should be forced into something they don't want, and fortunately there is something for everyone here so no one is forced.

I was referring to screening in general. No legit provider is just going to want to see someone who doesn’t want to give up ANY screening info. Too many risks. As hobbyists you shouldn’t want to see a provider who doesn’t screen because if she didn’t screen you she probably won’t screen the cop or the guy who wants to harm her that comes next.

I was referring to screening in general. No legit provider is just going to want to see someone who doesn’t want to give up ANY screening info. Too many risks. As hobbyists you shouldn’t want to see a provider who doesn’t screen because if she didn’t screen you she probably won’t screen the cop or the guy who wants to harm her that comes next. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

I'm sorry, I misunderstood.

I get what you are saying, but there is also a line that many guys are not going to cross. On another board that I'm on, a monger posted that one of the girls asked him for a pic of his drivers license, and another girl asked for his employer and work email address. If that were me, I would simply say no thank you and move on to the next girl, or go to one of my regulars. It's not worth having your career ruined or having management show up at your residence demanding money. In this hobby, everybody is taking on some kind of risk. Like fsn said, people should not be forced into something they don't want.

Again, I'm not saying that nobody should be screening. There is just a line that many guys are not going to cross in giving out personal info.

Sorry you are leaving the hobby. I really enjoyed our 2 meetings. Best luck in your future endeavors.