just letting you guys know....

hey guys...just wanted to put this out there...

been getting calls from.."hi im a lurker on eccie"...and stating he has seen
so and so ..and so and so..then goes into.."do you kiss"...
or.."what aren't you comfortable with..."

" I respond..im not comfortable with this line of questioning..and he goes onto say..the other ladies didnt have a problem with it...
play the music..(wawawawaaaaaaa)

when fellas ask these types of questions.....
your making me uncomfortable...it may be just a question to you..but it sounds like entrapment to me.....

please check out my reviews if you have questions..then understand that im a "ymmv" type of girl...

thank you for understanding..and as well..please know..you must have a cell phone..hobby phone when trying to set up a visit with me..i cannot make any exception with this....

have a good day..nita...

Tact, how does it work lol

What I ask.
Most of the time it works.

"I like kissing my girlfriend, do you like kissing your boyfriend?"
If the answer is yes, I ask if they are available, thats it.
Then I ask where they are and i will call when I get there.

This is if there are no reviews of the person I am talking to.

oh idk..good girls never tell....

Talking to providers, this seems to be a chronic problem. Why? It's Hobbying 101. Act like a gentlemen, and do not discuss services upon initial contact. I understand men want to know upfront what services will provided. Isn't that why we have this site?
I have always found treating providers with respect always got me on the good side of YMMV.

Talking to providers, this seems to be a chronic problem. Why? It's Hobbying 101. Act like a gentlemen, and do not discuss services upon initial contact. Originally Posted by mwebber

I've had a couple of providers FREAK THE PHUCK OUT when I talked about a possible upcoming session's activities over the phone after having had at least one or more visits already.

The fear was the line was tapped.

I don't know the right answer. It may be to never talk about activities over the phone... providers would have to address the issue though because I'm a bit clueless. Is there really that much concern over having your phone tapped?

The fear was the line was tapped. Originally Posted by NormalBob

That sounds a bit much. Don't federal authorities need to be involved for phone tapping?
I would imagine after seeing a provider once, most would be ok with discussing services. I have always preferred these type of discussions in person. No written record.
Sometimes it's not what you ask of these ladies, it's how you ask. Context always comes across better for me in person.

Color me paranoid but I will never talk any specifics over the air. You can pick up a cell phone freq scanner online. To me it's like driving without a seatbelt. You may go through your whole life without wearinng one until that one day...