I have sinned...

So I just wanted to get this out to anyone that might be on the path to commit the ultimate cardinal hobbyist sin as I did. “Thou shalt not advance payment for services before services are rendered, regardless of the reason behind the request “ It’s even worse that this confession comes from a 6 year veteran. Yes, this happened to me, not once but twice. One was a provider I sadly thought was a friend in the RW and I allowed myself to be strung along for a couple years, and the most recent and concerning one is a provider I had seen on several occasions, she fed me a line that she was in trouble and dumb ass me thought he was some kind of knight in shining armor, well you know how this story goes and ends as well. I’m not looking for sympathy, berating or even a “told you so!” I also don’t want to put all the ladies in the same category, but just saying gentleman beware I don’t want you to be putting out this same message in the future.

You are forgiven....
Move on !!!!

Karma will get her. It’s her loss, it’s better to have consistency rather than a quick buck. Money can be replaced but a friendship can’t.

well she will do that to the wrong guy and he will FK her up maybe then she will, unfortunately learn the hard way. Like Vanessa956 said consistency rather than a quick buck.