What to say when a client sees you on a sd/sb site

This may or may not be the correct place to put this but I was just curious as to how many providers and clients are into the sugar daddy/ sugar baby relationship.

Also what happens when a client asks you on one of the sd/sb sites what you do for a living?

Hopefully I am not the only provider who does sd/sb relationships on here, would love to get some other people's advice about the topic.

For me the truth usually works best in all situations, simply because if I take on something that starts on a lie, it is bound to blow up in my face. And if no lies I do not have to needless worry when is she gonna find out the truth. I do not like that worry so to prevent it I try the truth. Works for me.

Also, in any relationship I do not feel bound to answer all questions and I tell her that, simple. I am not comfortable with letting that info out right now.

You aer a good looking lady and should have no problems finding a good business partner.

If you tour, I don't know how SB would work - it wouldn't last long with me, I don't keep SBs that are gone a lot. I guess it would depend on the support.

I don't mind flying out a couple days a month to spend with my daddy but I just never know what to say! I hate being asked "what do you do for a living" I usually say I make people feel better/happy.

I am just starting to tour other than NC and LA but so far I don't see a problem besides I would rather not see my sd asides from a few days a month.

I wouldn't have a problem with an SB that is a provider, but if I have to set "dates" with her because of travel etc I might just as well stick with providers. I had that problem, it didn't work!

Thank you so much for your input!! I think what I'll do is have set dates that I will be in NC and set dates I'll be in LA so it won't be an issue.

Tell them what they want to hear, that you are a student! Lol, just kidding!! I agree that you should be honest. The only difference is some sort of consistent arrangement, right? You obviously have a reason for being on both types of sites, so just explain to them that you are an escort, but you are on Sugar Daddy site for whatever reason. Have fun!

All these wet tshirt bewbies!!! Making my day just by the pictures. Yeah I think you guys/ ma'am are right, honesty is always best so why not in this position as well??

I think Louigi's are fake! lol

Ya think? I found that somewhere, but they were animated bouncing up and down - dayum it looked good. I love boobies!

I personally would not like it. If I have a SB, I don't want her to be a provider. Not saying she has to be exclusive, but the closer to it the better. And, I do see providers but in my mind there is a distinction.

I guess my view is unless my Sd makes it to where I don't have any need to work then they don't really have a say in what I do when were apart. I don't dabble in their personal life and I enjoy keeping mine separate as well. Now sure I won't talk about it, answer calls/ emails when I'm around them from clients but at the same time I do this as a means to support myself, I have an Sd to make it easier.

And much agreed, louigi, you have been busted!

I guess my view is unless my Sd makes it to where I don't have any need to work then they don't really have a say in what I do when were apart. I don't dabble in their personal life and I enjoy keeping mine separate as well. Now sure I won't talk about it, answer calls/ emails when I'm around them from clients but at the same time I do this as a means to support myself, I have an Sd to make it easier. Originally Posted by TabooTanner

As long as you are providing what he needs and he is providing what you need what difference does it make what you do for a living? It may bruise his ego to find out he's not the only one, but if he met you on a sd site he shouldn't be that naive anyway. If he asks, honesty up front could save you from hard feelings later. JMO

I agree sometimes I just get bothered when anyone asks what I do or why I do it lol. The independent girl in me comes out I guess. My last Sd for almost two years knew what I did but I didn't start out the relationship while being a provider, I think I just realized how much I enjoy taking care of guys and it just rubbed off