I have a question?

so I thought that has providers are supposed to stick together and help each other out to make sure that we are all staying safe .. so here's my question and concern also I had text a provider to ask for a reference and now she is saying that in order to get references I would have to cash app her!! When did this become a thing ladies?? I have talked to a couple of ladies that I know personally and they said that this is not professional and this is not what we do. What is y'all option?

BS,
And, let the guy that provided her name as a reference of the situation.

Alyssa,
I tried to be civil with you but now you are just being messy. I have referenced many ladies clients for FREE. Please; tell the whole story before you try to defame my reputation like you threatened me through text messages earlier.
I had clients tell me they have seen you but, you get upset being listed as a refrence because "they're giving someone else buisness". Jealousy is ugly and it's now very blatant you are jealous.
I give EVERYONE the benefit of the doubt so I tried contacting you 10 days ago only to be ignored by you! You say you never got the text & sent screenshots but texts can be deleted!
Until today when you contacted me expecting a refrence from me. Sorry but why should I?
A client does not "belong" to any provider (unless hes into that ��).
So yes, if you really need me to refrence you, pay me. This is not a one way street.
Because I refused to refrence you, you told me you would tell all your clients not to see me. So go ahead, do as you wish. But make sure you tell the whole story!
I am ALWAYS looking out for the next lady but not with an attitude like yours.
I am not "trying to get money out of you" I am establishing a fucking boundry. And if that makes me look like a bitch, so be it.

This is BS! Since SESTA/FOSTA ladies most are desperately doing anything to make a dollar. No one sticks together anymore. Anytime a lady contacts me for anything I am always open to helping if I can. Definitely let the gentleman know, who is trying to get the reference from her, what she is doing. See if he will be willing to be screened another way.

Good luck

Forgive me for my post earlier. I did not know the whole story before scrolling down to see other comments. If my opinion matters any, instead of asking for her to send you cash for a reference, just don't give it to her and let her know why. I have been in the same boat with ladies constantly asking for references, but do not want to do the same in return. The times I have communicated with you, you have been nothing but sweet. Don't allow someone to take that from you.

Furthermore, this could have been handled a little better than having a public dispute about it. It's not good for the fellas to see or get involved in matters such as this.

Thank you Kelis. If you ever need me for a ref, you have my info. <3

Furthermore, this could have been handled a little better than having a public dispute about it. It's not good for the fellas to see or get involved in matters such as this. Originally Posted by Kelis_Monet

Yes, I couldn't agree more. But, if someone tries to defame me or spread lies I WILL stick up for myself publicly or in private.

And you have mine beautiful for anything! xoxoxo

Popcorn

Ladies ladies! As a vet I’m going to put my 2 cents in ... the entire foundation of this hobby’s success is safety. How can anyone be safe without checking references? Without ladies who are willing to provide verification (yes for free lol), there would be no use for this site or P411. The whole point is to be safe and have fun! Please let’s work together so we can all prosper! Good vibes to everyone!!!
Xoxo -G

Ladies ladies! As a vet I’m going to put my 2 cents in ... the entire foundation of this hobby’s success is safety. How can anyone be safe without checking references? Without ladies who are willing to provide verification (yes for free lol), there would be no use for this site or P411. The whole point is to be safe and have fun! Please let’s work together so we can all prosper! Good vibes to everyone!!!
Xoxo -G Originally Posted by giabella

Couldn't of said it better myself! I've been in this hobby on & off **staff edit** RS this month. We need to stick together especially with the FOSTA laws and how many serial killers are out here. The last thing I want is to see another SW dead or assaulted. My inbox is always open for refs, ladies! FOR FREE. Hope everyone has a blessed week!

Ladies ladies! As a vet I’m going to put my 2 cents in ... the entire foundation of this hobby’s success is safety. How can anyone be safe without checking references? Without ladies who are willing to provide verification (yes for free lol), there would be no use for this site or P411. The whole point is to be safe and have fun! Please let’s work together so we can all prosper! Good vibes to everyone!!!
Xoxo -G Originally Posted by giabella

Your always so good with replying to references!!!

I did not tag you in this for a reason I was asking the other ladies opinions I'm not being rude in any kind of way but you're trying to get money out of me for no reason I did not ignore you I never did see the message you want to take it upon yourself to think otherwise. Again this is a site that I can ask questions from other providers nobody was attacking you please calm down girl