On the flip side, I try desperately hard not to hire women with a "nba" rule, unless their hotness (personality + looks) absolutely outweighs their complicated preferences.
Originally Posted by Anonymiss
In many cities agencies don't have the best associations with black clients. I've heard mostly because they feel the ladies have to work harder during the sessions and can't fulfill noraml daily requirements due to more enthused sessions. The stereotype "big dick black guy" syndrome is usually an issue most times for agencies.........and from only the business side I could understand why they have the nba rules.......its still ignorant though lol.
I tend to hobby moreso with black woman because they understand my tendencies a little better and know what to expect to a certain degree based on my age and demeanor viia phone. I think prior to meeting ladies of other ethnicities I'm initially scrutinized more.....and sometimes the ebony ladies I use as references on p411 and other places are passed on for older white references I had. They seem to ask more questions that the ebony ones wouldn't, the conversaton to a certain degree is more smoother during screening.
I know that some women say these men are apt to "rip them off," but I've had guys of every ethnicity attempt to cheat me or haggle me.
Originally Posted by Anonymiss
Rip them off....I don't know about that screening helps eliminate that. But I do believe to a certain extent ladiies know for the most part certain brothers won't deal or go for a bullshit session........he gonna get his......so to avoid less resistance the will post nba rules so the can screw over other races of hobbyist who will be less likely to attract attention to themselves or take conflict. The normal hobbyist will turn the other cheek and call it a learning experience, while the blacks will assume she played me.....but game recognizes game.
Not all black hobbtist are this way of course....and definitely not the ones who have references who are good; but somehow we get lumped into that group unfairly. And usually on the rare occasion you hear of an alert on a black guy......no screening or reference check was involved.
I have heard though for the most part from ladies who advertised as NBA.....that of course I was still able to see they get haggled for lower rates, propositioned for off clock dates, experience guys who try to spend more time than bought.......and sometimes its from legit hobbyist. They see so many blacks in certain cities touring that they start to wonder if its the norm. So to avoid the hassle they make the rule.
Ebony providers, you are hot! Please respond and contribute provider experiences. I'm curious.
Originally Posted by Anonymiss
That's the thing....usually at least locally most ebony providers won't post as much, they sort of ride in silence. Some say its because to a certain extent you have to fit in to the crowd opinions for approval and admiration. And the black girls who will try to post and break the mold they are ostracized for not having beliefs and ideas about the hobby that are similar to their white counterparts. Their weere a few instances locally where we had well rounded black providers who posted, but the ones who tended to be more well received were more catered to posting more vanilla issues and their tone was more valley girl than educated an urbanized or street smart.
If you are going to say absolutely hateful things, you should not participate. Plain and simple!.........
TLDR: Black providers are hot. What do you think?
Originally Posted by Anonymiss
Sounds like the typical NBA thread to me, I'm sure there are many here who don't see black providers and can't wait to volunteer information about why........
