ManSlut is spot on with his advice. I always tell guys who ask me about strip clubs that you will receive much more value for money by visiting an ECCIE lady than by trying to get extras from a stripper. Strip clubs are a very efficient hustle designed to squeeze as much money from you as they can, right from the entry fees, VIP fees, overpriced drinks, and of course the grossly overpriced lap dances and extras.
If you have a lot of money to blow and enjoy the strip club atmosphere, then maybe go for it. Some guys like to go there with their friends and shoot the shit for a few hours. I think they're a huge waste of money and I avoid them at all costs.
Originally Posted by VeryClean
You are right that the majority of the time, contacting providers is the best way to go when looking for extras. Usually at SC's, if you want to play ITC, it costs much more, the time is much less and of course their obviously cannot be any IOP, even in the VIP.
To give you some other pros and cons: Some of good things, you do not have to wait for providers to contact you back, drive across town to their incall, get ghosted once at the incall on occasions and have to pay a large donation all up front. At the SC, you are already there, you can chat with a dancer to see if you are compatible for dances, and even if you do get one without chatting first and do not like it, it is $20 not $250+. Trying to chat up providers will usually land you on the "timewaster list". The negative to that is if you get a one time dance from just 10 different girls, you have spent $200! So, watch yourself.
On a personal note, I have a couple of dancers I see on a regular basis and we meet OTC regularly. The BCD activities are just as good if not better and at a better donation overall, especially considering the time spent with each other, no watching the clock when we are together, many times, we spend the evening and all night into the next morning with each other. It takes lots of work and effort, but if you find the right one(s), you are good to go until one or both of you cuts the ties. I have not done reviews lately because I am doing that mainly at this time.