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If a Provider doesn't have LFK DFK DATY BBBJ on the Menu would you still see her? Would you expect the rate to be the same as other Providers who do offer them or would you try & negotiate a cheaper price? Now what if she is really Hot & doesn't do those things? To me those aren't Deal Breakers but I know a lot of guys would probably pass if those weren't offered!

Lots of variables, lots of price options, lots of Providers.
Comes down to what the mix is of the above.
All the options listed don't have to be on the menu for me.
And price varies between Providers with same services.
But I NEVER negotiate a cheaper price. She should already have it listed for you to make a decision before you even think about contacting her.
It is up to the Hobbyist to decide if he wants the look but not the feel he is use to.

Like you, they are not deal breakers per say.

Would you expect the rate to be the same as other Providers who do offer them or would you try & negotiate a cheaper price? Originally Posted by Crispy1969

Never try to negotiate a cheaper rate! If you determine that there is not enough value in what the lady is offering you them simply move on to someone else.

Gotta have my daty, for me thats a deal breaker

I would pass. I'm looking for a GFE.

I would pass. I'm looking for a GFE. Originally Posted by oden

Wake up and let the dog/cat out.
Let her use all the hot water before you.
Keep the seat down.


Yeah, that is what I do for a Provider to get the GFE

I research and don't contact those who don't offer what I want. I pass or play at the lady's named donation. Eye candy...I find something attractive in most women! If it's hers and she owns it, I find that enticing. Wandered around to say if a lady doesn't offer what I want, I don't care how good she looks!

I agree if daty is not on the menu it is a deal breaker...I can go without kissing one set of lips but not the other.

If a Provider doesn't have LFK DFK DATY BBBJ on the Menu would you still see her? Originally Posted by Crispy1969

Those are all menu items I look for, and I shop accordingly.

Would you expect the rate to be the same as other Providers who do offer them Originally Posted by Crispy1969

I don't really have expectations concerning what a providers rates should be based on activities. I just know what I am willing to shell out for, and that depends on the situation.

would you try & negotiate a cheaper price? Originally Posted by Crispy1969

I am an absolute sucker for specials. I don't even know why, I think it is because it feels like I am getting an extra special deal. However, I never negotiate, I use the most current ad, and that's all there is to it.

Now what if she is really Hot & doesn't do those things? To me those aren't Deal Breakers but I know a lot of guys would probably pass if those weren't offered! Originally Posted by Crispy1969

Nah, not dealbreakers, but I do like to know what to expect. In other words, I would probably be disappointed if I expected one thing and got another, but if I know going in then I am fine.

same here, knowledge is key...know what you want,and how much you are willing to pay for it. This would eliminate misunderstandings.

I've always been a fan of BBBJ, the others I can do without but are always a bonus but no BBBJ pretty much means no buisness from me, unless the provider is excedingly gorgeous

Seems as though SA has spoken: do your research and don't negotiate.

I think everyone has given good input on this. As for me the only real deal breaker is the BBBJ, i've gots to have it, haha. I've only considered seeing a provider who only offers CBJ, once, but it has not happened yet, she has not been in town. The other two times i've had this in the hobby where ladies that advertised and had reviews with BBBJ and when i got there they did CBJ for whatever reason. Which leads me to my other point, full disclosure, i dont mind not having DFK, DATY, or even BBBJ (if i find the provider that appealling) as long as i know before i go in that's it is not on the menu.

I dont have an expectation of price in proportion to menu items. It just depends on what I am looking for and how much i want to see a certain provider.

I prefer the total, intimate GFE. In my opinion, the GFE at least includes:

• LFK
• DATY
• BBBJ

I don't schedule an appointment with a provider who doesn't offer these services ... regardless of her fee or her attractive appearance. My Franklin's buy the total, intimate GFE experience ... not the twenty-something pretty face and/or hard body.

I never, ever negotiate a provider's fee. A provider who offers the services I desire is just a click away.

That being said, a provider has the right to set her menu of services and fees as she sees fit.

I had a wife like that and apparently so did Tiger Woods....and I agree that we never negotiate a rate....

Let me ask a socratic question...if Ruths Chris served a ribeye and it looked good and smelled good and they said you can look at it but you can't eat it...would you pay full price off the menu to do that......