Suggestions please..Double dates dilema...

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I have a "conundrum"......I get ALOT of requests for doubles...from all over!

Now I do have an array of sweet & sexy ladies I can do doubles with...BUT.... the problem is that they all have a considerably higher donation rate.....and asking them to lower their set rate down to match mine seems offensive & makes me feel uncomfortable...they set their rates at what makes them happy!...BUT...If I match their rate,nine times out of ten,I loose the appointment.

It really puts me in an uncomfortable situation.....and also puts them in an uncomfortable situation.

I would welcome any suggestions please! Thanks!!
Add your rate and her rate and make it a total amount. Then, you take what you charge and she takes what she charges.
DallasRain's Avatar
Oh no thats not fair Stick..cause i am setting the call plus doing all the screening/setting the schedule/and using my incall.........and doing just as much play as her!{basiclly all she has to do is show up for bcd}

I am not trying to be rude or harsh..just staing facts babe!{I still luv ya for chiming in}
Seems you only have a few options. Best bet might be to get the same provider to do more than one double that day and she might "budge' on her hourly rate. Just be honest about the client's budget. Worst thing is she will say no.
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Dallas......you are getting your rate, right ? Why concern yourself with her rate ?

Is this a regular gentleman or just someone interested in a one time
double ? I understand that you are bearing the brunt of the legwork
and expense.......but he is your client.

You can always not do doubles......but that could also hurt your bottom
line.
well if you charge 100 and she charges 150,and the dawg agrees to pay 250,then what is the problem?you get your rate and don't lose the appointment,and she gets her's.otherwise you dont get a appointment,remember you are the one in need of a partner to complete the date.her rate is hers and you have your rate.you are the one offering doubles,just my 2 cents.example all hotels don't charge the same rate,but you can pick and choose.hey how would you like the dawg to say well i will pay 500 for the appointment,and when its over he says i will pay you 30% and the other girl 70% because i think she was the better of the 2 in my double.If you dont need the business then maybe you can stop doing doubles
DallasRain's Avatar
thanks for input!!!!!
But, some women are going to charge more for the gay for pay thing.
You could maybe try splitting the legwork per say. As far as screening and room costs. Heidilynnla has a good idea.... if it were more than one client that same day, or if the one client wanted several hours, it would be more reasonable for everyone to negotiate prices. It's a tough call on this one, especially when ladies have different rates.
doubles are great but my first time with dallas i would want to enjoy every minute, every second exploring her. no other women, no other guys, no toys, no role play let me just have 3600 seconds my exploring miss rain, fucking and sucking and i will die a happy man. may not answer your question but thats my story and i am sticking to it
I have a "conundrum"......I get ALOT of requests for doubles...from all over!

Now I do have an array of sweet & sexy ladies I can do doubles with...BUT.... the problem is that they all have a considerably higher donation rate.....and asking them to lower their set rate down to match mine seems offensive & makes me feel uncomfortable...they set their rates at what makes them happy!...BUT...If I match their rate,nine times out of ten,I loose the appointment.

It really puts me in an uncomfortable situation.....and also puts them in an uncomfortable situation.

I would welcome any suggestions please! Thanks!! Originally Posted by DallasRain
DallasRain's Avatar
lol petite--thanks--luv ya babe!!

the input was very helpful--thanks everyone!
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Let me know sometime if u need some help Dallas {EVERYTHING WITH A SEXY WOMEN IS NEGOTIABLE LOL}
Oh no thats not fair Stick..cause i am setting the call plus doing all the screening/setting the schedule/and using my incall.........and doing just as much play as her!{basiclly all she has to do is show up for bcd}

I am not trying to be rude or harsh..just staing facts babe!{I still luv ya for chiming in} Originally Posted by DallasRain

Maybe I didn't get what you are asking. The way I read it was that you were concerned about raising your rate and loosing the appointment.

BUT I didn't get the providers perspective of having to do all the work, yet making less than the other lady.

My suggestion, set your rate. If guys can't live with it then move on. If they want a double session with you then they will pay it.
So is the gentlemen not ok about rate of the doubles partner you are choosing Dallas?

Or are you nervous about asking her about her rates? Eekk!

It is a sticky situation. However I have known guys to pay each gal their respective rate. It happens all the time. If the guy really wants to see you and the double partner he picked, he should pay each ladies rate.

It is a sticky situation. However I have known guys to pay each gal their respective rate. It happens all the time. If the guy really wants to see you and the double partner he picked, he should pay each ladies rate. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302
I think what she is saying that she is cool with that, but she is doing all the leg work and not getting anything extra for it.