OP......I'm in CNY .. and IMO I think its safe to say, (going by the wording in your post) its your approach !
did you fully read the ads? did the ads specify that you visit their personal website and contact through their website and you didnt ? did the ads specify no texting and you texted? did the ads specify to call but you texted instead? did the ads specify that you text and you called instead? did you offer screening info and ref's?
did you send a text with the oh so welcoming "you avail?" or did you call and say " are you avail?", without properly introducing yourself when you contacted these ladies? It's all about the approach sweetie! ....... I know most of us ladies will just ignore someone who dosent follow simple instructions on HOW to contact us
just saying