Then get a divorce!! I dont understand if men so unhappy in the marriage just get out! Life is SHORT!! If your wife is now unattractive to you,wont give any nookie etc.. kids? Shouldn't have em in the first place! 1 is more then enough!If you do have em oh well that's what shared custody is for!! Being exposed to the hatred and arguing can be very stressful on kids.Why be miserable? For both parties!!
Life is SHORT
Originally Posted by kiki2012
Not only beautiful but also wise. I never got married nor had kids for many reasons but mainly because I have never been with a women and thought that I would always be with just her. The best I have ever felt in the past was "I can see being with her for five years but then I will have to find a new one" Even now in my 40s you would think having a 26 year old gf who is beautiful my brain would say "you should marry her and have a kid your not going to do any better and time is running out". No in my head I still hear a voice saying "rob this girl of all the years you can then when she leaves go find an even younger more beautiful one"
I am told that this isn't normal thinking but its how I have always felt. When guys would get butt hurt because their girl left I was always looking forward to the next one. Its not that I dont care about women I really like them but to me things always get stale. When they do I like to find a new one to have new feelings for. I like the way it feels to fall for a new girl.
I will say this now that I am old as long as I can keep a younger girl around I am in no rush to have to find a new one. 20 year old girl look at me completely differently now than they did when I found this last so. I am in no rush to have to try and figure out how to trick some young girl into thinking I am a good choice for a mate. Not even sure I could.
Oh hell who am I kidding of course I could. There are some really dumb young girls out there. You ever watch a rap video? They think that shits good lol
My advice to all my married friends who complain about their wives is always "Leave her and go find someone who makes you happy life is to short"