Payment Up Front

I have been ripped off by a Dash/w/Cash before, but I have never used Paypal or CashApp or anything like that before meeting a lady. Most ad's I see that request payment or partial payment, up front, look to me like fake ad's anyway. Have yall had a lady that requested payment or at least, partial payment up front, and turned out to be a legit provider? Or am I correct in figuring that this is a good way to weed out the scammers! I've even read where some say they don't want ANY payment, they just want the sex, if you'll email them and put "SEX" in the subject line to let them know you are real. I figure, THEY are the one's that are not real providers. Just my way of thinking tho. Some ladies on here might not agree with me.

I sent an advance payment to an ECCIE girl from Alabama prior to an appointment in my local which is about a two hour drive for her. Day of guess what NCNS, her phone is no longer in service. After I inquired via eccie pm she was very apologetic and offered to send the money back. So far I haven't received it. She seemed to be really down on her luck, me too.

Yep!!

Many ECCIE and Home2 gents as well as many other hobbyists utilizing other sites.
Have indeed pre-paid and MET a legit provider
Speaking of myself.
I for one value honesty and my reputation. And have not nor would not ever cash/dash anyone.

For the gals that do pull that chit. Don't value honesty nor their own reputation.


Adding yet,
Many of us LEGIT ladies whom do honor our word and SHOW up after prepay was met. We very women are tired of the timewasters. The game players. Whom without prepay...book and never show. Or book and stiff ladies once bcd.
So we LEGIT ladies are changing how we choose to meet gents.
The TRUE respectable gents whom book with LEGIT ladies have no issue with our rules of pre paying.

We're making it harder for the timewasters/game players to get their way.

Times have indeed changed in this adult lifestyle.

I have been ripped off by a Dash/w/Cash before, but I have never used Paypal or CashApp or anything like that before meeting a lady. Most ad's I see that request payment or partial payment, up front, look to me like fake ad's anyway. Have yall had a lady that requested payment or at least, partial payment up front, and turned out to be a legit provider? Or am I correct in figuring that this is a good way to weed out the scammers! I've even read where some say they don't want ANY payment, they just want the sex, if you'll email them and put "SEX" in the subject line to let them know you are real. I figure, THEY are the one's that are not real providers. Just my way of thinking tho. Some ladies on here might not agree with me. Originally Posted by Guitar

I can understand, Ms. MC! I've had ladies tell me to come on, (with no deposite), and me show up at the agreed place and her never text back. So it goes on with both ends. Too bad, us guys have no way of recouping any gas money when a lady stands us up. But hey, yall have the pussy, so yall make the rules!!!

I had a client pre pay me for a multi hour app't. He was traveling from Kansas City to visit the WW11 Museum and stay at the new hotel Higgin's across the street.
He sent multiple deposits and the day before appointment was to take place, I had eaten a piece of fried chicken from a corner store in New Orleans and caught food poisoning. Then next day I went to the hospital in an ambulance because I was too sick to drive myself. I tried very hard to make the appointment. I decided at the last minute to call an agency owner to ask her to send a lady to meet him for our scheduled dinner reservations at commanders palace.


He was very dismayed and I even sent him pictures of me in the ER in my hospital gown and IV line in my hand. I was in the hospital for a day and 1/2 before discharged.


Luckily he was still in NOLA when I got out, and we were able to meet for breakfast.( I wasn't up for eating). But I still went and at the very least could give him a massage for his troubles and buy him breakfast.
He wouldn't hear of it. He asked me could he catch an Uber and bring me my Christmas gifts he had for me. I expected him to give the gifts away but he was so nice he saved the gifts for me. All but the chocolates, he gave them to the other girl because he is that kind...



He asked me to open the pretty box inside a matching gift bag, and I complied. Inside the box was a Coach purse, my favorite perfume, and the rest of the Money for the session I couldn't make,.
I cried my eyes out. I was so grateful. He said if I didn't feel up to a massage he understood. I was not 100% but I owed him that much. He wouldn't even let me pay for breakfast.



What a real stand up client. So YES some of us ladies who are reputable and receive deposits make our words our bonds....








I was truly blessed for the kind Gen't . He even asked could he come visit me in the hospital.. I told him where I was. He checked on my the whole time I was in there... They are few and far between.(Honest ladies and wonderful Gentlemen).
Happy Holidays Everyone!!


M.M.

Yep!!

Many ECCIE and Home2 gents as well as many other hobbyists utilizing other sites.
Have indeed pre-paid and MET a legit provider
Speaking of myself.
I for one value honesty and my reputation. And have not nor would not ever cash/dash anyone.

For the gals that do pull that chit. Don't value honesty nor their own reputation.


Adding yet,
Many of us LEGIT ladies whom do honor our word and SHOW up after prepay was met. We very women are tired of the timewasters. The game players. Whom without prepay...book and never show. Or book and stiff ladies once bcd.
So we LEGIT ladies are changing how we choose to meet gents.
The TRUE respectable gents whom book with LEGIT ladies have no issue with our rules of pre paying.

We're making it harder for the timewasters/game players to get their way.

Times have indeed changed in this adult lifestyle. Originally Posted by Mature Companion

YES times have indeed changed, and YES most ladies are legit and reputable. We reputable ladies run our business like a business. We rely on Reviews and and word of mouth for repeat business...I am like you , honest and above board....

Happy Holidays,
M.M.

Wow MM, you WERE sick. Food poisoning can make a person wish they were dead! I don't envy ya on that. But u are correct. That was a true gentleman. And you were as accomadating as u could be, under those circumstances. Wouldn't it be nice if everyone was that nice to each other. U just shared a great example of how we should all be, and how thankful, we should all be. Merry Christmas to u and everyone else.

Wow MM, you WERE sick. Food poisoning can make a person wish they were dead! I don't envy ya on that. But u are correct. That was a true gentleman. And you were as accomadating as u could be, under those circumstances. Wouldn't it be nice if everyone was that nice to each other. U just shared a great example of how we should all be, and how thankful, we should all be. Merry Christmas to u and everyone else. Originally Posted by Guitar

And he is already planning to come back to see me again. He is a lovely Gentlemen and therefore deserves only the best treatment... Next time I will be 100% and we will "SMASH" the session!!


Incredibly awesome Guy!!

M.M.

I have paid in advance and actually had it work out a few times but more often than not if you pay before the visit takes place you will never get the visit. What incentive does a girl have to see you once she has your money? Do you think a few guys bitching on hooker boards saying so and so took my money but never came through with her end of the deal will keep other guys from seeing a hot girl? No it will not. Actually its been my experience that if you want to guarantee never having any contact with a hooker ever again all you have to do is send her money in advance. That should guarantee that she will never contact you again or return text/calls/emails/messages.

You would think with what I just said I would never send a girl money in advance. I still do. I just consider it a gift and dont ask for anything in return. If you make it clear when she ask you that you will just send her money to help chances are you will see her again and she will probably treat you better when you do.

Makes sense to me, Basscat. That's why U the GENERAL!

Do they give pussy on credit? If not then I don't pay in advance

I have found something that for me works well when
meeting someone new off here, or a more adventurous
skip-t-games session. When she asks before we play
my response is to show her the $$$ and let her know
that I am cool putting it aside where it can be seen.
A quick mention that I respect her not wanting to be
ripped off, and I don't either. Pick a spot away from
the room door.. sometimes I grab the bible out of the
drawer and tuck the $$$ inside. I can't remember ever
having an issue with this, and it helps keep things
from turning awkward.

For a massage session I will give the house $ up front,
but never the tip.

Like heavy screening, I understand the ladies feeling a
need to take steps for safety and security. Let me know
the expectation and I can decide one way or the other.
Same with asking for a deposit. I am still a no, but
I know up front what the rules are.

I guess I am blessed that I have not been stiffed on donations lately. If you only meet up with vetted/ properly screened clients who are known for having a stellar reputation, then you will fair out better. Same goes for the Gentlemen. I would only see reputable providers....


Just my 2 cents...

I guess I am blessed that I have not been stiffed on donations lately. If you only meet up with vetted/ properly screened clients who are known for having a stellar reputation, then you will fair out better. Same goes for the Gentlemen. I would only see reputable providers....


Just my 2 cents... Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

It's difficult where I am to find a provider at all within a hundred miles. Reputable or not.

Some interesting points were raised in this thread.