I finally took the plunge and signed up for FetLife dug in a little deeper to find the groups in Kansas City. Started to read about these groups and the things that go on and I was shocked and amazed! I have to go to some bar downtown and get vetted which I'm not sure what that means, and I will be allowed to go to Club IX.
And thats where the crazy fun shit really happens! I didnt think our little bible-belt town could support this kind of kinkyness!