Apology To Redleg42 And Clarification

A recent review of me was brought to my attention...as Redleg42 made a comment that I would like to address. First, I would like to apologize, once again, to Redleg42. It's never my intention to have to cancel...nor to make anyone's life miserable for doing so.

Sometimes, life just happens...and sometimes, it happens at the worst possible moment! I realize it's frustrating...I can completely emphasize, as I deal with cancellations and NCNS's, on a weekly...sometimes, daily basis.

I've never advertised myself as being perfect...I do the best I can and try to be as fair as possible. I've made some miserable mistakes and have screwed up many times over...but, I've managed to sprinkle some happiness along the way...and try not to take things for granted.

If I have to cancel for any reason...I always give an honest explanation and offer some sort of compensation...that's been my norm for many years. I think anyone who's been around the hobby for the last nine years can attest to that. Not sure about the other cancellations Redleg42 was talking about...as it must have been over six months ago, but I do know that I had to cancel many appointments, between Jan-May timeframe, after I injured my arm.

I didn't realize how this type of injury would affect me and my ability to meet my committments. Instead of going through with the set appointments...I made the decision to cancel when my arm would hurting...rather than giving someone a half-assed session.

When I extend my apology and explanation...and someone doesn't accept it...and gets rude, obnoxious, or tries to bully me into thinking I owe them something...that's when I draw the line. I do not owe anyone anything...if I extend an apology and offer a compensation...that's a COURTESY.

Saying that...I would like to clarify Redleg42's last comment about my *last minute* cancellation with Sonya and Addison. I did NOT cancel at the last minute. My participation was contingent on a prior committment that I had with a client of mine who had just returned from Afghanistan. Sonya was well aware of that...and I told her as soon as I got the message that my client had made it into SA...the same day as their party.

I would never cancel on my good friends Sonya and Addison without good reason.

Life's too short to sweat the small stuff...let's not forget what's really important...we have so much to be grateful for...and so little time to enjoy it all!

Have a great weekend everyone!

very nice Nikki and I just happen to be one of those very lucky folks you mention from the past nine years

====> your words are explicit

honestly with the injury you sustained I really don't know how you managed to do as much as you did...

very nice reply

A genuine and classy response to a bad situation.
As aways Nikki, you show yourself to be a woman with grace and class.

Well put, Nikki. I speak from the position of someone whom you had to cancel on (around valentines day) and you handled it like a professional. It's because of providers like you that I hang around the hobby....don't sweat the small stuff, if someone cancels on you - I will take their appointment

Quality lady with a quality post.

Nuff said.

SF

Well I've never noticed your injured arm interfering with your skills lol
By the way which one is hurt?

Likinikki is not only a beautiful woman shes a good friend well handled mamacita!!

Nikki...you are still the epitome of a lady to me...

You will always be a Class Act in my book and in my bed Nikki.

You know? Out of all these replies, Redleg42 has not replied. Does he even know that this thread exists?

We all know how wonderful and classy Nikki is (she truly is and I have great admiration for this beautiful woman), but it seems that perhaps Redleg should be the one replying.

Nikki - In my 8 years of having the pleasure of knowing you, you have always been a class act and more than fair in all that you do.

i have had the pleasure to know nikki for several years and she has always lived up to every positive review / comment i have read. not only does the LADY have skills but she conducts herself as a true southern belle. she has become a true friend and a lovely distraction on many of my trips to san antonio. on the one time she had to cancel(sickness), she went out of her way to make sure i had a plan b and went out of her way to make sure everything went smoothly. and on my next trip she went further to make it up to me, well lets just say i had another great time with a great woman! it appears mr. pegleg (redleg) missed out on one of san antonio's greatest treasures. if he never makes an effort to see nikki it means she may have time for those who truely appreicate her skills and the fact she is a beautiful person. one other thing, who among us is perfect? nikki is a lot closer to perfect than i.

Some of my thoughts....

I have had the pleasure of meeting with new and repeat clients in recent weeks and many who have seen Nikki speak so highly of her beauty, professionalism, grace and even said she can be a fun little fire-cracker. I was speaking in person with Sonya the other day told her that I have always admired Nikki.

Call me a white knight, but I am angry that she has now spend several minutes of her spare time and energy defending herself. It reminds of an unfair situation that I had dealt last year (fake review) which ended up quadrupling my business. I just hope Nikki's thread triples and quadruples her business, not that she needs it. She is a legend, after all.

((Hope your arm gets better, Nikki))

XOXO

A

Nikki is a classy lady and I am sorry to see someone slander such a great woman. She has always been respectful of my time as I have been respectful of her precious time. She is one of the most enjoyable, honest and forthright companions I have known as a UTR hobbyist. Lighten up RedLeg42 and like Nikki said, "Life's too short to sweat the small stuff...let's not forget what's really important...we have so much to be grateful for...and so little time to enjoy it all!"

Hi Ms Lady,

I haven't checked the reviews yet but you sure did handle this apology with class......far better than I could have handled it..ahhehehe ....lol...(I'm still learning, btw )

So Redleg42 wanted to go for a 4some..... I'm very impressed!

Hugs and more Hugs, ms lady!

Sincerely,
Wet