SouthernSexyGem

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I know the rules about posting personal information on other on this site so I will just state facts. I don't want to make the same mistake Nolagarcia but I believe he has a point. I experienced the same type of stuff from this provider and I am totally new to this site. I got her information from BP, not ECCIE.

I sent SouthernSexyGem an email with my photo. I got her photo in return. She told me she was still in bed and to contact her later. I emailed her back later and gave her a little personal information about me to easy the setting of an appointment. She sent me an email later and said someone was threatening her and she was scared to meet anyone. I never received her number and never really had an appointment but I found this whole exchange a bit weird.

Funny thing is I see she is posting Ads on here and BP??? I am not sure what is going on but all of this is very strange to say the least.

Over paranoia!!?? I hope she gets things situated cause I was hoping to see her. She has a couple of good reviews.
A trusted dawg did say she has communication issues.That is usually not a good sign especially just starting out
Why would any guy send a provider a picture?
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It doesn't necessarily mean it was a valid picture. She asks for a photo as a part of her ad and states you will get one in return as she did not post a pic with her ad. She sent one back....of course her face was smeared out. I didn't see the harm in sending a picture. I read a couple of good reviews on her and I decided to comply with the request to try and do some business. I dont have any worries about the picture as it was not anything I wouldn't post on Facebook or anywhere else. There really isn't anything she could do with the photo.I am just an honest guy trying to do some honest business.
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Also, in her defense, I read on one review that she has a full-time job as a professional and has to fly under the radar. I understand this perfectly but you have to accept some risk to be in this business.
Now you guys know how easily I become confused.

She told me she was still in bed and to contact her later. Originally Posted by lickem4ustickem
So if she takes calls in the middle of a session, other than a potentially ego-deflating loss of your boner, what is the risk to the community's safety?

I sent SouthernSexyGem an email with my photo. Originally Posted by lickem4ustickem
It doesn't necessarily mean it was a valid picture. ... I am just an honest guy trying to do some honest business. Originally Posted by lickem4ustickem
If it is not a valid picture of you, then how are YOU being honest?


I don't want to make the same mistake Nolagarcia but I believe he has a point. Originally Posted by lickem4ustickem
So what is your point again (without questioning her character like nolagarcia), and again, how is it an "alert"?

Also, in her defense... Originally Posted by lickem4ustickem
Now I am really confused...

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Do you think she might not have liked your pic and was just blowing you off? She does have the choice in who she sees as a client.
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I can tell you with confidence there is nothing wrong with my pic. I have been asked by some escorts I have seen in the past why I need an escort....referring to my looks. My answer is.....I am a hobbyist and I have the cash to get what I want, when I want it.

I am attached and it is safer than having an affair. Escorts don't tell you they love you and want the car, house and kids. LOL
The only picture she cares about is the picture of a president,most dawgs will never send her a pic to be screened,she can ask what ever she wants,but requesting pics will hurt her business,it also could be a nba deal who knows.bottom line she has started out on the wrong foot with all the drama and poor communication.In the beginning she sounded promising.
I explained in detail, that I had an incident last week, and I'm sorry that all the good dawgs have to pay for one bad one... Sorry lickem4ustickem I referred YOU TO SOMEONE ELSE SO SORRY YOU DIDN'T GET WHAT YOU WANTED EITHER.
RESPECTING A FRIENDS REQUEST
RESPECTING A FRIENDS REQUEST
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SURE about pics ....... really?
Way to start off in the hobby
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SouthernSexyGem,

I accept your apology but I don't remember the referral you are speaking about. None the less, this is a hobby and nothing personal was meant by my post accept to alert some honest dudes about our communication issue. You have a few really good reviews on here so why not try to build upon that and grow your business.

If you change your mind about seeing me and we meet and have a session, I will post a review in fairness to you and the dudes on this site. Have a great day!

Lickem4ustickem