Remembering that there are several ways a woman can be pleasured that are not related to you having a large cock might ease these anxieties. Clit rubbing, finger fucking, dildos, vibrators, fisting, rimming, and eating pussy are just some.
Sex acts beside PIV can be just as if not at times more arousing. As a submissive, I've experienced my mind being thoroughly blown and my body trembling uncontrollably due to nonstop forced orgasms by a skilled Dominant who didn't even take his pants off. If one isn't into BDSM, there are vanilla toys that could be useful.
Look up different types of orgasms and techniques for helping your partner achieve them. Even if you can't change your penis size (unless you get an implant), you can cultivate your sexual skills. Being communicative, respectful of boundaries, and genuinely open to feedback makes a huge difference.
Also having well-fitting condoms is important. FC2 condoms are my personal favorite partially because they are great for all sizes. But I know some people don't like them so MY.SIZE condoms are another great option.
Originally Posted by Lena Duvall
Lena,
Thank you so much for you response. I do know that PIV is not the only way to pleasure a woman, and I keep telling myself that. Yet, deep down, I think at least psychologically, it weighs on me. Thanks for reminding me that I should not let it effect me.
I am not as educated as I would like to be on bdsm. I know in life, I am certainly not an alpha male. More like a beta. Probably closer to gamma. Lol. So I do not see myself as a submissive. But I would probably enjoy exploring domination. It would just mean finding a submissive who I feel comfortable with to explore that, and who enjoys educating. Absolutely things to think about. Thank you so much.