There is a place I used to frequent a while back where I became really fond of Emo. Just to clarify this has nothing to do with her and I getting personal with each other. I don’t mean to take this discussion into that route. During my visits Emo would often prepare me coffee, tea, occasionally even serve and invite me to dine with her and the other girls in the kitchen. As a way of showing my gratitude I would reciprocate the favor by taking gifts to her and the girls every now and then.
Eventually I took a break from that certain place after some changes took effect. A vast amount of time passed by before I returned. Once I did Emo was no longer there. I believe she chose to retire due to instability at that time. I used to see her as a mother/grandmotherly figure, the latter more of. I regret not exchanging contact information but it didn’t occur to me that I wouldn’t get to see her again. Emo and I would often discuss several things many of which were personal and unrelated to the business aspect. We both enjoyed always having a nice chat.
It saddens me to know Emos are often portrayed in a negative way. Most simply work a certain place in order to sort out cleaning, cooking, and scheduling duties. A lot of girls are astonishingly lazy and have no clue on how to do any sort of household work. As a result someone has to clearly do it. I too realize that some of the girls fill in at times acting as the house mom but only when Emo has the day off. That can also be thrilling in a way as I found out for myself a few times. Many may not realize but the work Emos do can be quite stressful. Not only are they cooped up dealing with drama amongst several girls for a large part of the day. They also have to deal with rude unwanted customers and provide accountability to the owners.
Anyway this is all from my personal experience so I don’t know whether others can relate. I do wish to reconnect with Emo sometime in the foreseeable future whenever that may be.