I've actually thought about doing this.. the problem is a lot of men do not like to admit that they are not confident in this area and you definitely don't want to approach them you want them to approach you Originally Posted by Sienna91It's actually been a fantasy of mine for quite a while to engage a sexual surrogate or mentor and play the role of student eager to learn. I've never had any complaints about my sexual talents and I'm confident in my abilities, but I love learning new things, too, so why not get schooled by an experienced, seasoned professional? And maybe there will be homework!
Are there any hands on "female sex coach"? I would think that men who don't feel very confident in their skills in the bedroom, to be able to pay a woman to give a hands on session or session hot shit to have a beautiful woman offer help Originally Posted by TallThinBaldGuyLearn the stages and signs of arousal. It is different with each lady. She should be able to give direction on what she likes.
I've actually thought about doing this.. the problem is a lot of men do not like to admit that they are not confident in this area and you definitely don't want to approach them you want them to approach you Originally Posted by Sienna91As I’ve aged I’m not sure so much with me if it’s confidence related potentially not being able to get it up or what. But the last few sessions I had with providers I felt the need to tell them I am struggling with erections so what ever you can get out of me would be good. So I really only saw providers that I was very comfortable with toward the end of my job Hong.
... She showed no reaction and told me some thing about some kind of misdirected something or other.I think the term that psychologists use is called 'erotic transference'.
During the next couple of sessions I told her that i still wanted to fuck her, but she pushed the comments aside. About a month later she discontinued our sessions. So I asked if that meant we could fuck. Still no. Originally Posted by starway
Just surfing the net, I've happened across a couple of sites where sexual surrogate services were available. I think this type of service is offered more frequently on the West coast, where attitudes toward such therapies are more relaxed. Originally Posted by Fritz52From time to time I work as a surrogate with a talk sex therapist. My experience is limited, but this is usually for people that have deep problems with sexuality for a wide range of reasons. Again....my experience is limited, but I also have to take notes and go with what the therapist thinks is okay for the patient. Basically, if the patient can comfortably have sex with someone, they do not need a surrogate.