what the hell is wrong with Iowa guys???

EmilySmile08's Avatar
just a mini rant, im so sick of hearing "Are you real" "are you a cop"
"send pic" "I only txt I don't talk on the phone"

these are all questionable. where are all the legitimate guys at?

I don't ever remember Des Moines guys being like this

and don't get me started on the guys that set something up then just plain flake

END RANT

have a great day yall
livn2do's Avatar
I'd answer you but I'm not sure you're even real...or a cop.

I'm kidding.

There are a variety of reasons. Primarily I think the "brotherhood of trust" that once existed amongst the guys has all but vanished.

I think quite a few of the local ladies would agree with your assessment. I hear it all the time from the few local ladies that I am still in touch with.

The times are changing and not necessarily for the better.

I wish you the best of luck.
x"CY"ting's Avatar
I agree with Livin! I hear the same thing from my contacts here in DSM and travelers.
x"CY"ting's Avatar
Livn, my bad
livn2do's Avatar
Thanks CY
Emily, sorry for your troubles. If ECCIE was the only game in town there would be a lot less of this crap. But with Skip, Cityxguide, Adult look and search, there are a lot of fake escort ads that are selling webcam sites. Also girls with nothing to do posting fake ads just to see how many texts they can get. Also a lot of girls who do provide but post pictures that are not them, because they are unattractive. Then provide minimal service or take the money and run.
Then we have guys with nothing to do, who have so little game they can't even buy pussy. Booking appointments and then being a no call, no show has become the modern equivalent of "Do you have Prince Albert in a can?" Or you have cheap dicks trying to get you to send them nude pics. Or cheap dicks trying to haggle full service down to $80. Yes, a bunch of assholes out there just pulling phone pranks, probably a lot of teenage boys who should be at school or baseball practice.
Now I hear legitimate guys complaining that a known provider won't return their calls, because she's tired of the same crap that you are experiencing, so has set the bar high to even respond to a text. I don't have a solution other than to say, provider or client, you need to weed through the shit to find the gem. Better luck to you.
DallasRain's Avatar
I hear ya
I luved going to Iowa and saw some awesome awesome gents when I did
But quit going cause got too many time wasters...guess they don't lie old ladies like me lol

Hope it gets better for you sexy lady!!
EmilySmile08's Avatar
Well hope it gets better I’m here until the 9th ����♀️
When I fly out, I should have stayed in omaha longer sheeeesh
les123's Avatar
Geez, CB and Livn couldn’t have been more eloquent. There is shit on both sides. The ads are full of fakes and half of the real ones are no no’s.traveling Ladies like you have become very rare. Dallas told us all why. I remember a time when it would be tough to make a choice, now sometimes I just keep to myself. The hobby has definitely lost its luster imo. Are the powers that be accomplishing their purpose? I believe they are.
Several years ago, an experienced, knowledgeable gentleman told anyone who would listen that the "street" was coming to the Internet in this lifestyle.

It took a while but the integration seems complete as some have described participants (both male and femaile) in this thread.
I sent you a couple messages Yesterday but never got a reply back.

Well hope it gets better I’m here until the 9th ����♀️
When I fly out, I should have stayed in omaha longer sheeeesh Originally Posted by EmilySmile08
i thinik les, livin, CB are all correct. Heck i was observing on STG and im like i know pornstar Alex Chance is not here.
Just the way the ball bounces these days.

From observing Emily's twitter she seems legit.
EmilySmile08's Avatar
Very legit lol
Trying to find a little time for you this afternoon.
EmilySmile08's Avatar
Lol well it’s my last day here. I’m near the airport due to leaving early in the AM