Permanent Incall vs Hotel

LilRed's Avatar
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Permanent Incall vs Hotel?
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Providers and Hobbyists, I would love to hear your opinion on the matter. In which do you feel safe or comfortable? Which would you prefer to use and why?
I feel safer with an incall, Hotels have to many eyes.
I personally prefer a permanant incall location. I don't ever really feel comfortable in hotels. You have to be ubber careful about attracting attention from housekeeping, maintenance, desk etc. Not saying I have a stream of traffic running in and out. However, I just feel more comfortable knowing my neighbors. I know their work schedules so I can choose the best times that won't draw attention to my place etc.
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Interesting... I've always assumed that a provider prefers a hotel because it's less permanent; you can move from hotel to hotel without establishing a discernable pattern. Personally, I'd prefer a permanent incall; it lends itself to a feeling of comfort and just feels more natural. A hotel always has a clinical feel to me.
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I prefer a private in call. About the only time I see a lady at a hotel is when I am out of the NOLA area. The local ladies I see that have residential in calls that are very discreet. Nosy neighbors could present a problem if there is a high volume of traffic.
LilRed's Avatar
I have had an opportunity drop in my lap to get a very nice upscale condo in BR as an incall (I would still be keeping my personal residence seperate of course) It is in a prime location and the price is really not bad. I wanted to get some opinions before I jumped into anything. So please, keep posting your thoughts everyone. Thanks!!
DallasRain's Avatar
I like my incall...It is safe,discrete,and convenient

I use hotels when I travel..it is harder juggling maids/making sure you have the extra towels & clean sheets/etc

I prefer my house incall...It just seems more personal..I cater it to my personality..."my own little shag pad"{lol}!

congrats on your opportunity...go for it!
Just seems like it would be much easier to relocate if using a hotel. One crazy stalker could mess things up.
DallasRain's Avatar
true Maleman....Screening is of utmost importance when seeing new clients

{knock on wood}..I have not had any problems since I have been using my incall...But my incall is a little different set up than most incalls
LilRed's Avatar
Ok, question Ladies, do you have clients that just show up unexpected to see if you 'might' be free in a permanent incall? That happened one time at 5AM!! at my hotel. I had stayed at my incall over night because I had a late appt and did not want to drive home that time of night.
DallasRain's Avatar
When I lived in Phoenix..I had a client show up saying "he was in the neighborhood" and wanted a quickie{lol}

But you know how my incall is,so I am lucky that that has never happened here

Best bet..is just go for it & make sure you let the guys know that they cant just 'show up" when they feel like it.
I feel safer with an incall, Hotels have to many eyes. Originally Posted by rpmsouth
What he said. ESPECIALLY when you have a 2 pm session at a hotel and there's no one there except you and the staff. I try to act cool, but when it's obvious that I don't know where the elevator is, I feel it's a dead giveaway.
DallasRain's Avatar
lol--thats true Stavin!
{I try to let the guy know where the elevater is compared to the front desk}
{I try to let the guy know where the elevater is compared to the front desk} Originally Posted by DallasRain


Single handedly the best thing a lady can do for us guys when going to a hotel!!!!!!!
skeeter's Avatar
I personally like the private incall..... It's hard to be discreet when you walk into a hotel lobby on your way to see Dallas and my pants are bulging , my tongue is hanging out and I'm drooling down the front of my shirt .....
Seriously I feel less threatened ..... As for drop-ins if it isn't your regular residence you would probably only be there at appointment times..... and I don't know but I would imagine with the price of hotels.... It more than likely won't cost you any more per month...I think they are a wise choice ....