Conditional "grandfathering" of rates.

When a woman responds to a request with the disclaimer that grandfathering of rates won't apply to me because too much time has passed bewteen our last visit. An attitude of punishing me for not being her loyal puppy dog......well it just pisses me off.

Felt like saying "Yeah Babe! I missed you too."!!!!!

In this case it's been 4-5mths after two-2hr and one-o/n visit(s).

Sometimes us guys get cock-blocked by famdamly and have to drop out of boinking.

Venting done.

BTW I typically pay current rates to avoid being thrown on the back burner for higher paying clients so the only thing this did was make me mad enough to pass.

.....OK NOW venting done!

Wow that sucks! I don't blame you for passing

Wouldn't you feel better if you named her?

Wouldn't you feel better if you named her?

Originally Posted by monkmonk

No. This was a private discussion. Whether she does it to someone else or not is anyone's guess. So get off your "public disclosure" crusade.

I had to pass too on a provider with the same attitude and reason, then she called my phone every hour for two days... and I didn't answer the calls, then she stopped.

It hapenns more often than you think. Hapenned to me with someone a while back, then she contacted me for a session. I wasn't available at the time but, it seems like she was just trying to fill a time slot. I'd seen her waayyyy too many times in the past so, I'd probably see her again if she calls. Way too many providers in Dallas for us to put up with that.

They can and will do whatever they want, often to their detriment. They are not the best at retailing their product.

I understand how you feel. I have had that happen with someone I have seen off and on for years (like 9). Makes you think you should stick with newer ones that appreciate the business.

I understand how you feel. I have had that happen with someone I have seen off and on for years (like 9). Makes you think you should stick with newer ones that appreciate the business. Originally Posted by jacobmccandles

Sounds like the best way to go. It's not a good feeling to leave a session with someone you expected to have a great time with and it's a downer because she acts like she's never seen you before. Then again, maybe it's a sign that you need to move on.

I think the ones that don't hobby as often - might want to mention that it's been a while since they have gotten to play at all....you came to that lady first because A. it was a good session and B. you were hoping to keep the rates you had last time.

I would think a lady who turns down a grandfathered client after say, six months - and can see he's been hobbying on a fairly frequent basis, is justified in her actions. granted, if you have been missing one another due to whatever - that's a different story too.

I think some girls are more flexible than others - and sometimes, the ways we tend to communicate can fuck up the best intended meanings.

I've posted my "rules" on grandfathering, but I seldom stick to them. I've had people that haven't seen me in over 18 months that I've still given grandfathered rates to. In this economy, unless the guy is a total jerk its just good business.

In this economy, unless the guy is a total jerk its just good business. Originally Posted by Cora Drake

"like"

"like" Originally Posted by tntangie

Oh, come oooon!

Just hit the button

Grandfathered usually means you visit often, I personally wouldn't after 5 months haven't seen or heard from you. Come On Really?
But if you visited me then start to haggle me, no grandfather for you.
If you visit often make appointment's then change at last minute, no grandfather for you. Some guys seem to get so comfy they think it's ok to run us around cancel.
Now I am sitting here passed on another appointment for you to cancel,be late,overstay. Because some of us only have so much time.
Our time is just as valuable as yours! God forbid, I don't grandfather you.
So think about if you crossed any of those lines, maybe that's why your not getting grandfathered?

They can and will do whatever they want, often to their detriment. They are not the best at retailing their product. Originally Posted by JohnBoyjrh

Grandfathered usually means you visit often, I personally wouldn't after 5 months haven't seen or heard from you. Come On Really?
But if you visited me then start to haggle me, no grandfather for you.
If you visit often make appointment's then change at last minute, no grandfather for you. Some guys seem to get so comfy they think it's ok to run us around cancel.
Now I am sitting here passed on another appointment for you to cancel,be late,overstay. Because some of us only have so much time.
Our time is just as valuable as yours! God forbid, I don't grandfather you.
So think about if you crossed any of those lines, maybe that's why your not getting grandfathered? Originally Posted by Sami

These two responses needed to be closer together. Ok, please continue.